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Is wanting to be witha woman crazy
Asked Nov 26, 2009, 10:08 PM
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2 Answers I really cabt go into the whole story but did you have have a moment in your life where you were just drawn to someone. Well I had that experience I was drawn to a straight woman and she was drawn to me. The connection we made was so strong that it was scarry because we only worked together and I barely new her. But one day we had lunch together hit it off and it was like something ignited in us. And even though I am attracted to women it was just something strange about this one in particular like to the point where we could feel on another emotions. I mean it was deep.we fell in love within like 2 weeks. But she kind of snapped out of it and the feeling was gone. Then she started the LEts be friends conversation mind you we have already been intimate with one another and shared some deep feelings with each other. However even though it was hard for me to let go so easily to her it seemed very easy after a while for her to stop feeling for me. Then one day she calls me upset to tell me that her and her new boyfriend got into a fight. 1 side of me wanted to be a friend but the other side was thinking damn like that was quick. How we go from can't breathe without oneanother to this and now I might not even hear from her for days. I just don't get it what happened? How can you go from a deep connection to completely nothing.........  |
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| Well she could have been using you for sex or maybe she was experimenting? But she probaly wasn't looking for a serious relationship. She just did it to do it. Now I see you were serious about the relationship. But maybe she is confused? She probaly doesn't know what she wants? You Get Me? -Autumn | ||||
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| I think that your threads need to be merged. Faith, this appears to be a continuation of your previous problems. Actually, it sounds like the pattern you describe in the last thread you started. Let me guess, she is 'straight', had fun with you for awhile, then went back to men before saying 'let's be friends'. It sounds like you rushed into another relationship with a woman who allowed her libido to over-run her brain for awhile. Thinking with your hormones is not a good way to begin a relationship. You need to slow your relationships down. I don't think you really give yourself time to get to know someone before you are head-over-heels in 'love' and planning where to build the cottage with the picket fence and window boxes. Take weeks/months to get to know someone before having sex with them. Get to know them as a person and be positive that they share your feelings instead of possibly projecting your feelings onto them. Stop looking for love in the bedroom and with women who are not lesbians. | ||||
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