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daredevil_661 · Feb 25, 2008, 06:41 AM

Hi,my girlfriend said that she did sex before she was with me more than 5-6 times but she didn't bleed at all although she was a virgin before doing it and she stayed two years almost without doing sex until now I did it with her but when I did it she bleeds but in the beginning my entered so easily and later she did feel pain not in the beginning so I want to know was she a virgin when I did it with her now? Or it's a normal thing because from longtime she didn't have sex? Please give me a clear answer for this question

shygrneyzs · Feb 25, 2008, 06:45 AM

No, she was not a virgin. Being a virgin is not something that "grows" back, no matter how long between partners. You said she bled a bit with you and that can be explained - but it was not because she was a virgin.

talaniman · Feb 25, 2008, 06:55 AM

If she has had intercourse before you, then no she wasn't a virgin, if that's clear enough.

daredevil_661 · Feb 25, 2008, 07:38 AM

My girlfriend before she met me she did almost 5to6 times sex but she never bleeds when she did it as she told me, but when I did it with her she bleeded and felt pain so was she still a virgin when I did it with her??

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JoeCanada76 · Feb 25, 2008, 07:41 AM

As soon as somebody has intercourse. Whether the hymen is broken or not. Virginity is lost.

ScottGem · Feb 25, 2008, 08:08 AM

And what does it matter? Clearly you were not the first intimate relationship she had! So why would her virginity ot lack thereof have any meaning?

shygrneyzs · Feb 25, 2008, 08:24 AM

Worried? About breaking her hymen? Ummm... no, it was broken before you. If you would have been that worried before having intercourse, now that would have made you the better man. As most likely you would not have done "it."

Choux · Feb 26, 2008, 01:09 PM

The hymen is at the very opening of the vagina... if you can enter the vagina easily, there is no hymen. Once penetrated by a penis, it is gone. That means that the blood is coming from somewhere else, and I would consider that unfortunate, and rush to the doctor.

Jamiefemale79 · Feb 28, 2008, 03:43 PM

No fortuately you're only a virgin once but it the discomfort of a penis doesn't end once you have lost your virgnity. If you go extend periods without sex insertion becomes slightly tight and uncomfortable but fades gradually. I would say this is her issue. As for the blood.. I guess it depends on how much blood there was. I've only seen blood during sex when I am close to my menstural cycle and even then it was only a pinkish color and I didn't even concern myself with it.

kp2171 · Feb 29, 2008, 08:45 AM

She had penetration by intercourse. Not a virgin.

As for why she bled, there can be a number of reasons. Have you had sex since this first time, has it been painful for her again, and has she bled more than just this once? All important questions.