virgin or not?

STRANGER_OF_UR_DREAMZ · #1 Jan 15, 2006, 10:15 AM

hi pals
tell me if we mastrubate once or many times do we lose our virginity? or we lose our virginity only wen we hav sex with opposite partner?

bizygurl · Jan 15, 2006, 10:18 AM

Umm no, from what I have always understood as loosing your virginity it is the actual act of sex with another person, and I don't believe that means the penetration with sex toys either

Jesushelper76 · Jan 15, 2006, 11:09 AM

Definition of still having virginity is no intercourse. Has nothing to do with masterbation. The actual act of sex with somebody is the only way to lose it.

nwsflash · Jan 15, 2006, 11:40 AM

Definition of still having virginity is no intercourse period ! So don't get all worked up your fine.

lilfyre · Jan 15, 2006, 12:01 PM

A virgin is person who has not experienced sexual intercourse, if you have no done this then there for you are still virgin and you virginity is intact, your fine

PrettyLady · Jan 15, 2006, 09:30 PM

I agree with everyone. Masturbation will not take away your virginity. A virgin is someone who has not had sexual intercourse. Masturbation isn't sexual intercourse.

DJ 'H' · Jan 16, 2006, 01:27 AM

Masterbation bears no relevance to vaginity. Until you ave actually had sexual intercourse with someone your virgnity will remain in tact!!

RickJ · Jan 16, 2006, 02:58 AM

I think the answer depends on how a person defines chastity - and whether the person holds importance to being chaste until marriage.

I am not passing judgment - or suggesting that anyone take this view...I'm just sharing a different angle...

In my home we teach chastity and definine it as reserving a sexual relationship (a physical, emotional and spiritual thing) for marriage. Orgasm is a part of - and the climax of - the sexual relationship.

We do affirm the joy (physical, aka orgasm) and benefits (spiritual, spousal relationship-wise and procreational) of a sexual relationship, but that all are to go together.

...so masturbation is a form of seeking a part of the sexual relationship (orgasm) outside of the sexual relationship.

Thanks for listening (if you did

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DJ 'H' · Jan 16, 2006, 03:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rickj

I think the answer depends on how a person defines chastity - and whether the person holds importance to being chaste until marriage.

I am not passing judgment - or suggesting that anyone take this view...I'm just sharing a different angle...

In my home we teach chastity and definine it as reserving a sexual relationship (a physical, emotional and spiritual thing) for marriage. Orgasm is a part of - and the climax of - the sexual relationship.

We do affirm the joy (physical, aka orgasm) and benefits (spiritual, spousal relationship-wise and procreational) of a sexual relationship, but that all are to go together.

...so masturbation is a form of seeking a part of the sexual relationship (orgasm) outside of the sexual relationship.

Thanks for listening (if you did

)

We always listen to you Rickj - and it's nice looking at things from all angles.

midnightkiss · Jan 18, 2006, 12:52 PM

Masterbation does not relate to your virginity. You only loose your virginity if you've had sex...not masterbation.



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