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I am not homosexual, and there is no other problem. I am just afraid of sex. If you can't tell im a virgin, and sex intimidates me. One major fear I will say is being a father, growing up through high school I wished it upon all my friends that were sleeping around, but it never came to them so I believe Kharma will bite me in he butt for this one...so awkwardly enough, what do i do??? Precautions??
I don't understand what karma has to do with any of this.
If you fear becoming a father, use protection.
love story, it shouldn't be just about loosing your virginity and having sex. When you find the right person who makes you feel comfortable and whom you care about, things will seem less scary. It's ok to be nervous; it's expected but the more important thing is that you don't concentrate on sex (the act itself), and loosing your virginity, but on the person who you're doing it with- that's what is more important. You'll be fine.
Plain and simple : you don't have to have sex until you feel ready. Just because your friends are doing it, doesn't make it right or mean that you should be doing it. Some day you will meet the right girl and you will make the decision to have sex and its OK to wait as long as you want. And just because your friends haven't become daddies yet, doesn't mean they won't. I really don't think Karma is going to get you for not having sex. So don't worry about it, when your ready you will know.
I am not homosexual, and there is no other problem. I am just afraid of sex. If you can't tell im a virgin, and sex intimidates me. One major fear I will say is being a father, growing up through high school I wished it upon all my friends that were sleeping around, but it never came to them so I believe Kharma will bite me in he butt for this one...so awkwardly enough, what do i do??? Precautions??
Well I have some of your fears too. No, I am not afraid of becoming a father, however I am afraid of the intimacy and have problems getting used to touching other people. I am 37 years old and am still a virgin. So you might want to use protection and work on that problem because for some people: THE FEAR NEVER GOES AWAY.
I am not homosexual, and there is no other problem. I am just afraid of sex. If you can't tell im a virgin, and sex intimidates me. One major fear I will say is being a father, growing up through high school I wished it upon all my friends that were sleeping around, but it never came to them so I believe Kharma will bite me in he butt for this one...so awkwardly enough, what do i do??? Precautions??
All i can say is make sure you use protection when you do have sex but whatever you do, don't have sex to impress your mates or anythin like that (even if it means you need to lie to ppl). trust me when i say you will know when you're ready to have sex but until then have fun with yourself and then wen you let a girl take over you will be able to show her how to please you and hopefully she will be able to help you to please her. good luck and safe sex luv fi xxxxxx
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