Vagina location.stupid but I'm a little confused.

Xrayman · Nov 6, 2008, 09:02 PM

Amydawn, I think the majority of us here are perhaps finding this a little unusual that (I assume you are over 18) you don't know much about YOUR OWN anatomy, this is a concern to many of us that in this day and age, that is all, we are not trying to annoy you.

Regards

Amydawn12354 · Nov 6, 2008, 09:05 PM

Thanks... I haven't even ever opened the labia apart before to look (even though I've known I've needed to by now) because I've always been like kind of uncomfortable with it and don't know why. I kind of have like a thing with inside bodies and stuff, kind of hard to handle so that's why I've never wanted to basically open and look in there. I just turned 20and my boyfriend are having a little trouble trying to have sex, and I feel like it might be because I'm telling him the wrong place, or the vagina is too tight because I'm a virgin. I really don't know what it is.

Xrayman · Nov 6, 2008, 09:08 PM

Have you masturbated before?

Amydawn12354 · Nov 6, 2008, 09:11 PM

Many girls actually who are virgins haven't used tampons before, and I haven't. I know a few girls who are virgins and haven't use tampons or just don't use them because of the fact of being afraid of infections and what not. It's not unusual that I'm a girl who is 20 yrs old and a virgin. My boyfriend isn't a virgin and the way we have been trouble trying to have sex is trying to get his penis inside. I can't figure if it's because I am so tight because of the fact I'm a virgin, or what, so now I am coming down to questioning if we have been actually trying my vagina because I'm so frustrated with the situation. I even started questioning having "vaginismus" that I read about online, but I really don't see how that's possible I have that. I'm not stupid when it comes to sex, although my question might sound like it.

Amydawn12354 · Nov 6, 2008, 09:13 PM

I've only clitoral stimulation

Xrayman · Nov 6, 2008, 09:15 PM

You have never inserted a finger? As well as clitorally stimulated yourself?

Amydawn12354 · Nov 6, 2008, 09:18 PM

I mean, I have felt there many times and I have put a finger inside the lips like up to an inch length... But I don't know. Is there a way a finger can fit but not enough room for a penis yet because of being so tight, or is that impossible?

asking · Nov 6, 2008, 09:20 PM

We do not think you sound stupid! It's just hard to tell what you know and what you don't. I think we thought at first you might not know much and might be 12 or 13. Now it's obvious that you have a frustrating problem that is causing you to question things that normally seem obvious.

I assume you want to have sex with your boyfriend and are well lubricated and likewise that he is completely hard. If that is all true, then I suspect that you just have a very tough hymen and probably are fairly tight. You could also have vaginismus, as you say. If you are uncomfortable about your body parts and never touch yourself that's a possibility.

I doubt that your boyfriend is missing your vagina. Basically, it's the only way in and a very obvious target for a motivated young man. I don't mean to be flip, but your boyfriend should be able to find it. He may not be pushing hard enough, not wanting to hurt you. It might hurt when he finally pushes through.

Do you really want to do this?

Xrayman · Nov 6, 2008, 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Amydawn12354

I mean, I have felt there many times and I have put a finger inside the lips like up to an inch length... But I don't know. Is there a way a finger can fit but not enough room for a penis yet because of being so tight, or is that impossible?

Yes it is quite possible. Okay, where you place your finger IS inside the entrance to your vagina-the penis goes there, after much foreplay and some reasonable "pushing" from your partner

Amydawn12354 · Nov 6, 2008, 09:26 PM

Thank you... And yes, its becoming very frustrating almost to the point of almost crying because we have been together for a long time and I feel like it's not fair for him. I really don't know what is up. I do know there's not much space down there for it to be hard to find where the vagina is... But the thing I just can't figure out is why in the world it would be this hard for a penis to go inside a vagina. It makes me question that there's something abnormal, or maybe not enough experience and my vagina is very tight or what. It's just becoming frustrating! Which is the reason why I am even coming to question if it's the right place because it's just not making sense to me. He is definitely also completely hard. When it does hurt, I tend to hold him back a little bit. But I don't know. There probably isn't much else anyone can answer for me without figuring it out on my own!

Vagina location.stupid but I'm a little confused.

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