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I lost my virginity 7 years ago and I never had an orgasm . After i separated from my husband I start buying adult toys they seem to work ,but now i am with someone and I wonder if he gets insulted in any way if i ask him to bring my toy into our bed , other wise i won't have and orgasm.
tell him-more guys understand than what a lot of women think. Not all of us are unfeeling Cro-magnons.
Agreed. I would tell him that that makes you happier and he will most likely understand what you mean. If he doesn't then maybe you guys could work together to find a compromise?
I am sure he would be thrilled to play with the toys.
You just don't have to explain everything :"other wise i won't have and orgasm"
That's just unnecessary
It would be nice if he cared enough to figure out how to do what your toy does. Try using it as a teaching tool. I'd want to find out why I get joy from a toy and not the real thing.
You should be "Up Front" and "Honest". It is something you enjoy very much and you should talk to him about it! If you have a strong relationship with him ... I am quite confident he will have no problems with it. Honesty is the main ingredient though! It goes a L O N G way! Give it a try!
u know i thought about ur question again and the better response should have been give up the toy! it's actually very similar to guys jerking off too much and getting used to it that they don't orgasm during sex anymore. So the toy is actually the problem . If it is to be brought into the game it must be for extra fun but not a necessity for u to reach an orgasm otherwise the problem is not how to tell ur bfrd about it but rather how to get off without a toy! Well unless it's a huge toy and ur anatomy requires a certain size or shape that is. It could also be a psychological thing have u thought about it this way??
So anyway why don't u update us , what did u do in the end???
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