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I am not asking anyone to post how many partners they slept with that’s personal.
The question is how many sex partners are too much?
I personally think having more 3 sexual partners is too many. If woman told me that she has been with more than 3 people I would not date her, this of course only applies to when I was single.
I too believe that talking about it is very important. never be ashamed or afraid what someone will say. the past just that, past. there is nothing you can do to change it now.
That's it exactly. Why fret about something you can't change. If someone can't accept me for who I am and what I've done then I really don't need to be with that person to begin with.
I've been happily married for 13 years, so obviously the past doesn't matter that much.
I wasn't ashamed...it was more along the lines of..."why would you wanna know?"
Oh, oh, busted.
It really shouldn't matter if you are sure that you haven't caught anything from the partners that you have had. Aids is a scary disease, I would want to know if there is a possibility that a potential partner has come into contact with any disease. Condoms don't always work, just my feeling about this.
I have to disagree on this being kids stuff..because a person sexually history tells you a lot about a persons. Yes, I will agree that people change and they should not be judge soley on the fact that the slept with x amount of people.
Most of us are adult and teenage will mirror our image and ideals. This question indirectly ties into why teenage view sex like they do.
Be honest if you where going out with someone of several months and after a nice sex session your in bed cuddling. Your partner says “I feel so close to you right now, I want to tell you before we go any further, x years ago I was male/female prostitute, I hope this doesn’t change things” Throw in some tears and dramatic pauses has you see fit.
I do like asking the numbers. And not only my partners', but also my friends'. It's purely out of curiosity - I don't see anything wrong with knowing (or telling) it. In any case, as you get to know the person and establish his 'past' timeline, you kinda figure out the number anyway, don't you??
Yeah, but you have to take in consideration women/men may only count people they were in relationships with and not the random guy/gal the took home after trip to the club.
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