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Hi
Well I've scoured the internet and I can't find help with my problem.
Basially I am 28 years old and find that I get too easily sexually aroused! I'm expecting all the following posts to say that I am lucky but it is actually a real problem.
I go swimming a lot now to get used to being around naked men which may seem wierd but basically if I am naked in front of anybody I find that an instant turn-on. I stay in the showers with my shorts on with men showering around me and I can usually contain myself but feel a bit self-concious but when I take my shorts off I get aroused straight away and have to cover myslef quickly.
I'm not gay and don't find any attraction to other men at all. I don't care if I see naked men or if they see me but have a real complexity about being naked because I am very aware. I'm 28 and have sex 3 times now which may be the cause. I'm activelly dating so maybe having people (girls) seeing my body will help this so that I can eventually be naked in front of girls and not get aroused. Last time I had sex (many years ago!) I had sex a few times but then sat naked with the girl for a few hours where I was still naked and my erection didn't go away. Just having somebody see me naked is a real turn on whether its a male or female.
If I type 'erecion problems' into google I get results of people who can't get erections! I can't believe it. I'd love to be in the showers with other men and just not care. That would be my dream! How do you not get erections when people are looking at your naked body? It just happens.
I don't always feel sexually aroused either. Like if you get an erection in the morning it is not actually sexual, same as me. If I'm naked, even if no-one is around I get an erection.
Any idea? will it stop?
Bobby
Hi,
At 64, I'm jealous, too !!
If this is really a serious problem, as you are saying, I would see a Doctor. I am not a Doctor, nor a Professional in this area.
A Doctor can give some good advice, and I am sure there is a medication that help you control it. I do wish you the best.
Yes I have to say that I bit my tougue yesterday and waited today to answer this. At my age, while I understand the problem, it is hard not to almost wish for it.
But seriously, I would say that you may wish to visit a doctor, since it has to do with blood flow and other issues, a medical check up is never a bad idea.
Basially I am 28 years old and find that I get too easily sexually aroused! I'm expecting all the following posts to say that I am lucky but it is actually a real problem.
I go swimming a lot now to get used to being around naked men which may seem wierd but basically if I am naked in front of anybody I find that an instant turn-on. I stay in the showers with my shorts on with men showering around me and I can usually contain myself but feel a bit self-concious but when I take my shorts off I get aroused straight away and have to cover myslef quickly.
For some, it's a blessing, but for those of you who, at this age, have a problem with sexuality - you need to talk to a professional about it.
If it's something, anything at all, in your life that you cannot 'control', then you need help in being able to do just that. Take control over your body, as well as feeling, and other 'addictions'. This is just as much an addiction as drugs, nicotine, food types, etc, as any other.
The help you'll get in controlling this aspect in your life will be more rewarding to you than the stress that it's causing at this time. So, please do what you can to get rid of the stress that is plaguing you daily, and good luck dear.
Welcome, First off go see a dr. Second stick around sounds like your going to fit in well here and third, well keep us posted...lol... these guys can get funny around here and we all need a good laugh sometimes. I know I do. We do know that this is a problem for you and have given you some good advice, so let us know how it goes. I bet there are others that have a similar problem that you could help.
do cold showers help? Is there anything you can focus on that can distract you? I agree that a DR. is probably the best advice in a situation such as this, if you can not spontaneously control the lil fella.Do you ejaculate normally? how about your urine? These are some things a Dr. can address.
* side note* I wish my hubby had this " problem"
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