My wife and I have been together for going on 5 years now. I am currently in the military and serving a tour in Afghanistan. When I went through Fort Riley, KS, 2 other guys and myself went to an all nude strip club called temptations, this is the very first time I have done something like that since we have been together. It was a spur of the moment decision and I really wasn't thinking. The bad thing is, I tried to hide the fact that I went from my wife and she found out by one of my bank statements in the mail.

My wife has lost all trust in me no matter how long ago it was and how many times I apologize to her. I went home on mid tour leave and we are still extremely sexually active, but she doesn't want to consider what we have a marriage and continues to say things like "she has the most hatred for me than anyone else she knows" and it makes me really upset.

It has been almost a year since the incident and she is still upset about the whole ordeal. I don't know what else to do to make her realize that I am sorry and I don't want to ever do it again because it has caused her so much hurt and anguish.

stevetcg

This issue has nothing to do with strippers. If someone is going to turn tricks, the fact that they are also a stripper has little to do with it. Heck, being a stripper can be considered marketing!

I have known many strippers and prostitues in my life. Some strippers turned tricks, some would take money and then not put out (whatcha gonna do.. call te cops?) and most just dance. What someone does doesn't necessarily indicate what ELSE they might do.

I worked with strippers, dated strippers, married a stripper/porn star and was duped by a prostitute.

Again, this is all about the wife and her unhealthy obsession.

smoothy

Hell, none of the few strippers I've known would ever turn tricks....dancing for money, nude or not is a quantum leap from sex for money.

and I know a Married suburban mother of 4 (and a couple others) that does.....regularly. Regular soccer moms if you ever saw them out and around.


Never make assumption based on visible carreer choices.