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I am a single male. 24 yrs. student. waste a lot of my productive time on mansturbation. is there any definite way of stopping mansturbation without losing my sex drive? please advice.
Ah. now thats the point. im not very comfortable going to someone, a professional with sex issues esp if that deals with something like mansturbation. i think im seeking the professional advice (the thing which many are talking of) here, where im not in direct confrontation with anyone. help.
Wacking off is VERY normal for a young 24 year old. Yes, it does interfere with things some time. But, if you STOPPED, that would interfere MUCH more. You shouldn't stop. You shouldn't WANT to stop. Wack away.
I do commend you for being brave enough to come on here and share this problem, I was going to ask the same question but I don't want my friends and peers to know! :-)
I understand not wanting to go see a doctor about it... Can you imagine when you shake his hand and then tell him your problem? LoL, but sex addition therapy systems usually are a group thing where I would assume almost everyone is masturbating a lot. If you are still uncomfortable with that you would have to do it on your own. I think if it is affecting your life and getting in the way of your studies you have to make a decision before you do it. How many times a day would you average you are doing it?
I do commend you for being brave enough to come on here and share this problem, I was going to ask the same question but I don't want my friends and peers to know! :-)
I understand not wanting to go see a doctor about it... Can you imagine when you shake his hand and then tell him your problem? LoL, but sex addition therapy systems usually are a group thing where I would assume almost everyone is masturbating a lot. If you are still uncomfortable with that you would have to do it on your own. I think if it is affecting your life and getting in the way of your studies you have to make a decision before you do it. How many times a day would you average you are doing it?
Hi greg.
thanks for trying to help me first of all.
sumtimes it gets even to 5-6 times a day, but thats rarely, ie sumtimes on holidays. its not that i have any issue with mansturbating, but sometimes it takes long hours these days to get a hard on before u can do it. previously about 2/3 yrs back i could have done it even by closing my eyes, but these days i need to get some mags and journals, etc , hope u get the point , and that takes of a whole lot of time, in fact, otherwise the main stuff takes not more than 5 mins and 15 mins a day is almost nothing isnt it. gen i do it not more than once a day. i am not an addict of doing the thing for sometimes i can go even without it, for eg when study loads increase or i have some assignments to complete or im in groups etc but sometimes it mounts up like hell and belive sumtimes i get very tired after the act and that might well be in betwwen my peak working hours. hope u understand. i need a solve if there is one. thanx
Have you considered finding a girlfriend and getting laid every now and then? That would probably cut down on the masturbation quite a bit.
hi margarita
thanx for your suggestion. infact my very close friends too suggest the same. i dunno how u concluded the same even without knowing me!
i tell u what.. i had been wild after two girls in 2 different periods of my life. but perhaps our paths were different, so we never united. i cried for them like hell. infact i still cry for them. i was so depressed that i took an overdose of sleeping pills 4 yrs back. then my career took a dream turn and i was gone with it with one change encrypted into me that i will never run after any girl again as i dont have the time to lose for the emotional tag attached to getting into a relationship and i will wait for my girl to approach me. but i really feel low as im perhaps the only single, among my friends!
If it's interfering with your life, then you need help. You can find a sex therapist by looking in the phone book.
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thanx for yur advice. but sorry, as i told earier that i cant approach someone face to face. infact i dont know if im sure, but your earlier reply is sumthing i shuld belive in. i think u had given me the answer before. thanx
If you are masturbating to the point where it interferes with daily activities than you definetly have a bit of a problem. I mean how many times do u do it that it is interfering with your life? If your running to the washroom at work every so often than u may have a problem, also if nothing is cming out u have a problem!
If this is a religious thing than it is totally different, you may feel bad for doing it in the first place and your faith is more important to you than the gratification of jerkin', If that be the case than i commend you for that.
As foryour sex drive, i do beleive it will go wayyyyy up, if i dont "release for a couple of days EVERYTHING looks good, like that behind ain't sooooo big, PLUS if and when you do try it again make sure u gota beach towel handy cause it'll make a mess.
Lastly, don't hold off until ur first night with a girl, if you manage to last after she is undressed u will make itall of 3 seconds and then well......not cool LOL!
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