Steamy emails

Yes it's wrong , you are cheating Emotionally on your wife simple as that.

Why don't you use your energy trying to fix the sexual problems in your marriage. Have you even tried rather than sitting around being bored?

Get a hobby, get 10, then you won't be bored. Emailing sexually explicit emails to other women is not a hobby!

This is wrong, not only because your wife doesn't know about it but because deep down you know you would make it physical if the girl was available to you. Read your emails, when we said that the miles between you can be crossed, you didn't say it wouldn't happen, you said you're too broke to make it happen.

Either focus on your marriage or get a divorce and then you can mess around with anyone you want.

And then you post this.............?

http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...rl-333026.html

Good work M!

Scott, we often read the other threads posted by newcomers, just so we get the bigger picture.

So, when are you going to take that next step and actually cheat on your wife? It's going to happen if you keep this up.

Do you want to lose your wife? If so, then go for it, but do her one favor first, let her go so she can find someone who will commit to her fully.

Nice detective work, Friend... Further confirms the point Alten made... That it could happen if it were a woman that's available to him

I fully agree with the others. Talking with another woman in a sexual nature, and hiding it from your wife is definitely cheating! Your marriage has some HUGE communication issues. You've been asked several questions, and you haven't answered them. How come? Do you not have the answers. The simplest answer should have been...how long have you been married?

It's obvious from your other post, that you will take this further with other women. If given the chance, you would not only jump at it, you would do backflips do get there. How did you think everyone of us knew this even before viewing your other post. It's typical behaviour of a cheater.

Why are you being so selfish? Do you not think that there are thousands of men out there that get a little sexually frustrated when their wives are busy as hell with the kids and the home, and they are likely dead tired at the end of the day?

Think about your wife and children, and stop thinking this is all about you. This is NOT just about you! Do you know the lives you will effect by acting out your fantasies? The least of which, being your CHILDREN? It's time to grow up and take responsibility like a real man would.

Worrying about a co-workers glance or smile, or some little online trollup, is just childish. The only childish things you should be doing, should involve playing with your children, and promising them that Daddy will not let some silly fantasies ruin his marriage with mommy.

Focus on making the relationship with your wife better, by working on it. Do you ever give her a day off from the kids? Do you help around the house, to make her load lighter? Do you arrange for date nights with her away from the kids? There is many things you can do if you try.

Time to man up buddy!

I do everything you said and more, I do more housework than you could possible know, I am constantly cooking and cleaning and doing the yards and fixing cars etc. Also I have never had a physical affair in my entire life.can't have date nights because my wife won't live the kids with a babysitter. Also I have never had a physical affair in my entire life.

Why haven't you told your wife about your new hobby? Is that fear of the consequences? She may surprise you, and find you some help, because she would know how sick you really are.

How about using it to spice up your MARRIAGE?

I think you and your wife should go to a therapist who specialized in sexual aspects of marriage. Get your needs out and listen to what your wife's needs are.

I don't think a man has to be stuck with a wife who is a sexual dud and genuine complainer for the rest of his life. Who can stand that?

Be adults, work out an arrangement.