I am a 25 year old female who cannot orgasm during sex. I know there are a few questions on this subject but most answers seem to touch on the mental side of the issue. I am happy with my body, love my boy friend and really enjoy sex - I just dont come close to orgasim during sex at all! I can orgasim during masturbation but I have to wear clothes (friction) and I have to hold my breath! If I don't hold my breath I lose the climax. Could this possibly be a physical ailment? Or is it just that some women can't orgasim during intercourse?

Krs

I believe a higher majority of women do not orgasm during intercourse!
Most of us ladies orgasm during oral sex... thats the law

yogisgirl91306

try to masterbate while having sex, it might help. and my husband likes it when i do it.

EnglishRose

I have no idea how holding your breath helps. Personally when I orgasm I cant breath any way if its a good one. A lot of women don't from straight sex, but you can try foreplay until you do a few times first or some positions are better than others. doggy style and reaching round to do it yourself (or he can reach too) is usually fool proof though. I definatly dont think anything is wrong with you though.

hollylovesbrandon

about a week ago my husband and I were having sex and when i orgasmed I literally couldn't breathe. it was kinda scary. that doesn't usually happen to me. most women don't orgasm or have only had one a few times in their lives. i'm one of the lucky ones, i have one almost everytime!