slept with my neighbour/friend/ex's friend/he has a gf

ISneezeFunny · Dec 27, 2007, 12:57 PM

Holy...$hit. Episode of dawson's creek anyone?

First of all...you're 19. Stop drinking underage. Apparently, it's illegal. Who knew? I'm not saying that people don't...just saying, don't announce it to the world.

So...

You slept with a guy...who is your neighbor...who has a girlfriend...who has a kid...who is friends with your ex...and you're friends with his girlfriend.

...stay away? If you're willing to lose your...ex, kaitlin, kaitlin's cousin for that one guy, then go all out. Other than that, wouldn't do it.

katie-edwards123 · Dec 27, 2007, 01:09 PM

Well I live in canada the drinking age is 19 lol and kaitlin isn't my friend her sister is kind of, and I know its pretty crazy...didn't think about it when we did it, me and my ex have also been broken up for a year and he still likes me but I think maybe he should move on, my friend christy went out with him ..we're best friends and she's going out with Tay;s friend Keith now lol I told her about the night and she thinks its weird yet somehow funny which I don't think so because I feel super guilty yet I've acted fine to him about it..it's pretty ed I know ..it was unexpected for sure though

Fr_Chuck · Dec 27, 2007, 02:35 PM

Ok, you got drunk and sleep with someone, who is still with another girlfriend. He may or may not break up with the other girl, and he may or may not come to you. It is anyone's guess, Hope you were using protection.

Choux · Dec 27, 2007, 05:34 PM

Well, from your story, it appears that-as Dr. Phil says-you have driven your life off into a ditch. Good news, you are still young and can straighten yourself out! I see a couple of problems here....one, you *have to* get drunk to have sex, am I right? Not much a bigger red flag than this indicating sexual problems! You have to get to a good therapist!

Best wishes going forward.

ISneezeFunny · Dec 27, 2007, 05:35 PM

In my opinion, I don't think he'll break off the relationship. 9 times out of 10, when a guy cheats on his girl, he doesn't break it off...he just goes right back to the girl.

katie-edwards123 · Dec 27, 2007, 07:35 PM

Well one I don't have to get drunk to have sex lol I usually have to be in a relationship for that....it was just a mistake really but it just got emotions running high consider we've been good friends since we were like 13 or 14 and we'll be seeing each other all the time because we hang out with the same crowd ....I don't really expect him to break it off with her I just think it will be pretty bad if I see them and I'm clearly going to have to keep my mouth shut about this...I just never thought that would exactly happen and he wasn't drinking that night at all and clearly in the morning we weren't drinking but after I went home it was like everything changed when I saw him next it's really weird but I guess I'm just going to do nothing about it and pretend it never happened because that's what I get with all of this and yes protection was definitely used

simoneaugie · Dec 27, 2007, 10:40 PM

I applaud you! If and when he does break up with his girlfriend. Give him another try.

oneguyinohio · Dec 27, 2007, 11:02 PM

Now if I could only figure out which one of my long time friends are going to get drunk at someone else I know's house, I could arrange to pick them up...oh but they have to live across the road from me too... Sounds like there may have already been some sexual tension going on between the two of you and that night just let it happen? Wait and see if he breaks up or not, and if you two want to continue...

MOWERMAN2468 · Dec 28, 2007, 04:47 AM

Man, they must have really wide roads in Canada. She had been drinking at this guys house when he showed up and he gave her a ride home? Come on, she said they live across the road from one another.

slept with my neighbour/friend/ex's friend/he has a gf

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