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slept with my neighbour/friend/ex's friend/he has a gf
So i was drinking at my friends house when he showed up just in time to give me a ride home and we've lived across the road from eachother for quite some time now and we were friends in grade 7 until now ... we're both 19. I had a great night with him we were up until 6 and woke up at 9: 30 to do it again. I went home and then we've been hanging out for the past 5 days talking about everything because he also is going out wiith this girl kaitlin which i found out the day after she has a baby which isn't his and i think they's been dating for a year, he told me they were going to break up when she got back from Mexico which is today, he told me the last time we talked he wasnt ready for anything and he just wanted to see how things panned out but i've never done the whole random things he's my 4th and i was in a relationship with the others, i really like him but i feel like i can do nothing . Also my ex boyfriend is good friends with him and i'm friends with Kaitlins cousin and sister it's so confusing please help lol i havent talked to hime since last time either so what should i do ?
first of all...you're 19. stop drinking underage. apparently, it's illegal. who knew? i'm not saying that people don't...just saying, don't announce it to the world.
so...
you slept with a guy...who is your neighbor...who has a girlfriend...who has a kid...who is friends with your ex...and you're friends with his girlfriend.
...stay away? if you're willing to lose your...ex, kaitlin, kaitlin's cousin for that one guy, then go all out. other than that, wouldnt do it.
well i live in canada the drinking age is 19 lol and kaitlin isnt my friend her sister is kind of, and i know its pretty crazy...didnt think about it when we did it, me and my ex have also been broken up for a year and he still likes me but i think maybe he should move on, my friend christy went out with him ..we're best friends and she's going out with Tay;s friend Keith now lol i told her about the night and she thinks its weird yet somehow funny which i dont think so because i feel super guilty yet i've acted fine to him about it..it's pretty ed i know ..it was unexpected for sure though
Ok, you got drunk and sleep with someone, who is still with another girlfriend. He may or may not break up with the other girl, and he may or may not come to you. It is anyones guess, Hope you were using protection.
Well, from your story, it appears that-as Dr. Phil says-you have driven your life off into a ditch. Good news, you are still young and can straighten yourself out! I see a couple of problems here....one, you *have to* get drunk to have sex, am I right? Not much a bigger red flag than this indicating sexual problems! You have to get to a good therapist!!
in my opinion, i don't think he'll break off the relationship. 9 times out of 10, when a guy cheats on his girl, he doesn't break it off...he just goes right back to the girl.
well one i dont have to get drunk to have sex lol i usually have to be in a relationship for that....it was just a mistake really but it just got emotions running high consider we've been good friends since we were like 13 or 14 and we'll be seeing eachother all the time because we hang out with the same crowd ....i dont really expect him to break it off with her i just think it will be pretty bad if i see them and i'm clearly going to have to keep my mouth shut about this...i just never thought that would exactly happen and he wasnt drinking that night at all and clearly in the morning we weren't drinking but after i went home it was like everything changed when i saw him next it's really weird but i guess im just going to do nothing about it and pretend it never happened because thats what i get with all of this and yes protection was definetly used
Now if I could only figure out which one of my long time friends are going to get drunk at someone else I know's house, I could arrange to pick them up...oh but they have to live across the road from me too... sounds like there may have already been some sexual tension going on between the two of you and that night just let it happen? Wait and see if he breaks up or not, and if you two want to continue...
man, they must have really wide roads in Canada. She had been drinking at this guys house when he showed up and he gave her a ride home? Come on, she said they live across the road from one another.
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