[smoothy]

YOU GET THIS REALLY GOOD FEELING THEN CONTRACTIONS OF THE VAGINA AND SURROUNDING AREAS. noW IF i COULD ONLY FIND A GUY TO DO IT THRU INTERCOURSE,OH WELL

It helps if you are able to adjust your position during intercourse. If you find someone that can push all your buttons just so without years of marriage to learn, then it's a fluke of luck. Because what works for you is unlikely to work on the first 20 women you pull off the street at random. Basically meaning every woman's buttons aren't exactly the same. That's like saying all TV's are the same. Or all radios are the same, or all cars are the same.

[soadbeawal]

Try orla or anal as u self stimulate and when u feel it coming, just relax your muscles and don't think about it, just relaxing and let nature do its thing

[aaii]

Yeah I agree with what most people here have said.

Basically try;

1) Get little "helpers" involved (your toys)
2) Completely relaxing. This means being relaxed in your surrounding, your partner, everything. Just completely let go, sit back, and enjoy the ride.
3) Not "trying" to get an orgasm, because this will put both of you under pressure. Concentrate on making it feel good as apose to focusing on an orgasm.
4) Try different ways of stimulating. Stimulate the g-spot, cervix, clitoris, breasts (sometimes it's not just about what's down below that counts!), etc.

Take care