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    love story45 Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 10, 2007, 02:22 PM
    I cant move on
    Something is terribly wrong its been 6 months and I can't move on!! Simply I haven't gotten over her, and it is starting to negatively affect my life, and love life. We are still friends, and she still hurts me.. I know but she means well, she is to strong of a person to show emotions back so it was always left at that. I just want to know is this normal, I haven't loved to many people to know.
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    Apr 10, 2007, 02:31 PM
    You need to stay away from her. By being friends and in contact still the emotional baggage will, and still is, resurfacing. I would suggest avoiding her totally.
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    Apr 14, 2007, 11:30 PM
    I would suggest that you recognize that you love her, you wanted the relationship to work out, it didn't and now it hurts. Let it go and know that someone else will come along that will love you. You will love someone else soon enough. Plan to go out with your friends and stay busy. You need some alone time to center yourself. If she is still hurting you, ask yourself why you want to continue the connection? You need time to grieve over this and know that the hurt will pass. You are a strong person also and you need to take care of yourself and move on. I agree that you should not see or speak with her anymore.
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