Originally Posted by
valavilVM
first make Love, slow motion Love and then fast, It is easy to get excitement. all the best
I don't really see how this is helpful if she's saying that he's not interested in having sex with her. She's asking for ways to bring back the spark.
Tekkas, I think both Chi and Cats make some good points. It at least sounds like you have a solid relationship and I'm going to assume that you don't think his lack of interest means he's getting his loving elsewhere. So we'll go from there...
You seem to be doing the right things. Has he had any major changes in his life? (new job/loss of job, death of loved one, weight gain, etc) Sometimes life can cause people to lose focus and not feel "sexy" even though they still have the need to just 'get off' sometimes.
One thing I've realized that often women forget... tell him how sexy he is to you! So many of my guy friends say that their wives/girlfriends don't
tell them they're still attractive. They like hearing it as much as we do. Everyone loves reassurance.