I never post on these things, but here I go-
I am a straight woman, and I have fallen in love with the most amazing lesbian alive. We met last January, and flirted sort-of subconsciously for a few months. We finally went on a date in April (my first date with a woman), and have been together ever since, and plan on becoming domestic partners until California gets into gear. I still consider myself straight (I know this will bother some, but sexuality and sexual identity is very personal). I am not attracted to other woman, but I am 100 percent head over heels for her emotionally, physically, intellectually, spiritually, and I don't foresee this changing.
Basically what I'm saying is this: I do believe that a "straight" woman can call in love with a lesbian. I believe that sexuality is fluid, in that each person falls on their own spectrum. And finally, I fully believe in loving the person before the gender.
Good luck, and just be honest. My wonderful lady was afraid that she would scare me off by letting me know how she felt, but I am so glad that she did, because I was right there with her, and I still am.
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