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    Oct 28, 2010, 10:25 AM
    Does he love me because he goes down?
    Does he love me because he goes down?
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    Oct 28, 2010, 10:39 AM

    No he just likes to go down, whatever the heck that means!! :confused:
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    Oct 28, 2010, 11:03 AM

    I think I know what you're referring to.. but, before I answer your question.. How old are you two?
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    Oct 28, 2010, 09:09 PM
    Ha. When you say he goes down you're referring to him doing oral sex, right?
    Just because he's willing to go down on you doesn't mean he loves you.
    It just makes the sex better and he may enjoy doing it and possibly your reaction to him doing it.
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    Oct 28, 2010, 09:15 PM

    I second that. How old are you and what are you referring to?
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    Oct 28, 2010, 09:38 PM
    I'm not going to dignify this with anything other than, if you think oral sex = love, then you are too young to be taking your clothes off in the first place.
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    Oct 28, 2010, 09:42 PM

    Age, than an answer.
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    Oct 28, 2010, 10:26 PM
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    20 I'm saying di because he tell me if he go down that mean he love me
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    Oct 28, 2010, 10:42 PM

    If you're honestly that naïve, you have bigger problems than you have presented us with.
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    Oct 29, 2010, 06:20 AM

    It sounds more like lust, but lust fades and love grows. How does he act in other areas and how ;long have you known him? How long have you been a couple?
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    Oct 29, 2010, 09:11 AM

    Is he really trying to convince you that a sexual act is how he shows you how he feels about you? Is that followed by, 'If you love me, you would ________.'

    Has he ever told you in words that he loves you? If he has, did you believe him or ask for 'proof'?

    A declaration of 'I do _____ because I love you' usually means that the person is trying to convince you of something without outright lying or is trying to get you to accept that he really does mean it when he says 'I love you', but you are still not convinced. Only you know if you trust him and what he says.

    If it is a ploy to get you to do what he wants that is another matter.
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    Oct 29, 2010, 09:53 AM
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    We been bestfriends 4 7years we hook up on 8years

    He tell me all da time he loves me
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    Oct 29, 2010, 10:10 AM

    Could you not use text speech.

    If he tells you he loves you, what is up with the going down question?
    That has nothing to do with love for you.
    Is he trying to convince you to do that to him?
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    Oct 29, 2010, 09:38 PM
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    No he's not I'm just saying he told me he love me and I told him show me and he went down
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    Oct 29, 2010, 09:53 PM

    I am not buying 20. This is too childish.
    If you want him to love you seriously stop randomly hooking up with him.
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    Oct 30, 2010, 07:03 AM

    Having him go down to prove his love to you is immature and tacky. That is not a proof of love. That is sex.
    How old are you really? This sounds like teenage stuff.
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