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    chizzlecuzz Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 5, 2009, 04:00 PM
    Wife is gay
    What do I do if I found out my wife is gay:confused::confused:
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    45notdaddy Posts: 62, Reputation: 15
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    Apr 5, 2009, 04:21 PM

    Find out if she has a hot friend?

    All kidding aside, that's something that the two of you need to have a sit down talk - not argument - about.
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    Apr 5, 2009, 04:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by 45notdaddy View Post
    Find out if she has a hot friend?

    All kidding aside, that's something that the two of you need to have a sit down talk - not argument - about.
    Yeah well that didn't work out 2 good I won't 2 get out but now she keep talking about the kids
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    Apr 5, 2009, 04:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by chizzlecuzz View Post
    yeah well that didnt work out 2 good i want 2 get out but now she keep talking about the kids
    Ouch. Custody battles do suck from what I understand.
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    Apr 5, 2009, 04:53 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by 45notdaddy View Post
    Ouch. Custody battles do suck from what I understand.
    Yeah and just found out all of this TODAY wow...
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    Apr 5, 2009, 05:00 PM

    What makes you think that?
    Has she told you she is gay?
    If you want a more concise answer you need to provide something that would even give me a clue about what you are asking.
    How do you expect someone to give you advice based on your question?
    Read it and tell me what your advice would be.
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    Apr 5, 2009, 05:07 PM

    Yeah well when u go out of town together and my dad lives in the town we were at and I left the hotel room and come back theirs her and some girl having sex and she didn't stop right away and she told me she was drunk but there was no liquor in the room
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    Apr 5, 2009, 05:24 PM

    Wow, sorry you had to see that. Talk about catching someone in the act.

    You have two options even stay and try to work it out or leave. If you do leave she can't keep you away from the kids and if she try, then that's what the courts are for.
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    Apr 5, 2009, 06:18 PM

    When you say she talks about the kids, do you mean she wants to stay together because of the kids or she would take the kids if you separated?

    This was a huge failure in communication on her part, Not only is she gay and didn't say anything but she cheated on you as well.
    I'm not sure if it will have any effect on custody agreements, but you not only having to find out she's gay, but through her committing adultery will side in your favor a lot in the rest of the divorce.

    To give you any real advice on what to do you really need to give more information.
    Is she gay? Or bi-sexual?
    Does she still find you sexually attractive?
    Does she still love you?
    Does she want to leave, but chooses not to because of kids/quilt?
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    Apr 5, 2009, 06:31 PM

    It is not your wife being gay really it was your wife cheating on you,

    No matter what the gender preference, cheating is cheating
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