Help! I fell for my lesbian friend
Hello everyone!
I have this girl friend of mine, we´ve known each other since we where 15 years old. We where BFFs, and even though we lived far away from each other we kept a tight bond by phone, mail, and we spent most of our holidays together. We had great connection: we could freely talk about how ****ed-up we where, and teenage stuff. But most important, our relation was intellectually and emotionally challenging for both of us, in a profound way. We are both very intelligent and mental so we where always pushing each other to the edge, which was enriching for both of us.
We grew up then: we both turned in professional successful good-looking women. The BFF-giggling-teenage daily life-stuff ended, but the connection is still there. Two years ago we went traveling through Europe together, the trip was amazing, but at the end of the trip, I started feeling weird about each other. Little afterwards she came out of the closet and told me she was having a relationship with a woman.
The thing is now I can't stop thinking about her. It´s not that I like women in general, it´s just her. She keeps popping up in my dreams, and I can't help it. I had many straight relationships in the past, I like men, and I enjoy the sex and everything. Even more, I can't figure myself in bed with a woman, But why can't I take this girl out of my head?
Furthermore, she is very affectionate, she says she misses me, she says she loves me (in a friendly way), and that she admires me, she keeps on saying thing like “we are like John and Yoko” or “Simone de Beauvoir and Jean-Paul Sartre”. But Why?
She lives in another state, and she is involved with someone, so what's the point of coming clean? But sometimes I feel she is looking forward to me to do so. On the other hand, I don't want to blow this friendship. Please, help!! It´s killing me, and I don't know what to do.
Thanks
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