Should I get my boobs done.

shazamataz · May 3, 2009, 07:18 AM

There is absolutely nothing wrong with smaller breasts.

Bigger ones can get rather annoying let me tell you, you have to buy expensive bras and even then the straps vut into your shoulders.

If you are unhappy with your appearance then it is your choice but I really don't see the point.

People come in all shapes and sizes, would you ask a midget if he would get leg lengthening surgery? Sure he might want to be taller but he accepts what he's got and finds a partner that will accept it aswel (as you have done)

shazamataz · May 3, 2009, 07:19 AM

Just thought I'd add... Not just "accepts" them but sounds like you boyfriend genuinely doesn't mind, he likes them otherwise he wouldn't say he did!
And if he doesn't then he is shallow and you deserve better

sabrewolfe · May 3, 2009, 07:20 AM

My opinion is that he is being honest with you and you should stop asking him about it. If you keep nagging him about your insecurity in this he will start to agree with you when you say you should get an enhancement done. After a while, men get tired of re-enforcing the same thing over and over. If you are comfortable about yourself and he is too, why change that? Save your money.

liz28 · May 3, 2009, 07:32 AM

You said he said "he likes them the way they are" so why are you beating yourself up over your boobs.

Love yourself and once you start to love yourself you will be able to love the skin your in.

I think instead of getting boobs you need to work of your self esteem.

Also, before you even consider getting a boob job know the pros and con. Check the doctor history in your state. You want to know if any complaints have been filed against him and that he is a real doctor.

I really think you should work on your esteem but it is your body. And if you have to ask strangers if you should get a boob job then you shouldn't.

So I vote no to the boob job but yes to building up your self esteem.

Fr_Chuck · May 3, 2009, 07:52 AM

The problem is in your mind, you "think" there is some norm

Back when I worked in the fashion industry the size that was considered the only one allowed for models to be used for new products was a 34 B, so most women were always far to large.

So no you don't need a push up bra to be normal, since your normal is just what you are.

But they are yours and if you want to do it, but often this is a trap and soon it will be your legs or nose and more

bronzebabe · May 3, 2009, 02:16 PM

My advice is DON'T!
My beautiful sister, who is 5'10 and naturally thin wanted them done. So she did it. There was nothing wrong with hers to begin with.
First, the surgery isn't fun. Second, it made her look really odd.
If she could, she would go back and NOT do it.
Be happy with what you have!

makapuu · May 3, 2009, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by liz28

You said he said "he likes them the way they are" so why are you beating yourself up over your boobs.

Love yourself and once you start to love yourself you will be able to love the skin your in.

I think instead of getting boobs you need to work of your self esteem.

So I vote no to the boob job but yes to building up your self esteem.

I agree with liz.
If you are unhappy with your body, you can either change your thinking, or change your body. Changing your mind is easier and cheaper. Implant surgery is costly and there are no guarantees that they will do what you think they will do for you. So it's up to you, you are doing it for you, and not because you think your boyfriend wants you to have them.

Wondergirl · May 3, 2009, 02:46 PM

A friend got hers done, and now she hates them. They are stiff and feel hard, don't feel like normal flesh. She knows they will sag quickly too when she gets older. I'm guessing your boyfriend will not like how new ones feel.

jordanian11 · May 3, 2009, 04:18 PM

Hi
Thanks all for the replaies and answer
I think I shouldn't get them done
But I still don't feel okay about that so maybe as you said I should try to be okay with who I am and build up my self esteem.. Although it takes to much time and I think my whole life I will be un happy that my boobs are small. But I remember when I was a kid their were a lady that my family used to know and he boobs were so big that I kept wishing that if I grow up I never want to have boobs

but now I don't think this is funny ..
Anyway thank you all for the help

Should I get my boobs done.

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