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Asked Jul 17, 2012, 03:04 PM — 19 Answers
I do sex with a girl. She is 18 years old and me 24. She said this is first time for her but I did not found any single drop blood. Is she a virgin or??? Then I am doing sex with her since 7 months but result the same, no blood. So I am so confused about her virginity. So please tell me she is virgin or not???
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Jul 17, 2012, 03:08 PM
Some women only bleed the first time. Other women don't bleed at all.

If you've been having sex with her for 7 months, she is no longer a virgin.

Was she a virgin the first time you both had sex? We don't know, you will have to ask her.
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Jul 17, 2012, 03:10 PM
First she is not a virgin after the first time you have sex, and you should not expect blood after first time. But it is very common now that girls do not bleed, they only bleed if their hymen is still intact, But exercise, tampons, many sports can cause it to tear. So there is no way to tell
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Jul 17, 2012, 03:25 PM
how would i know she is virgin
i do sex with a girl she is 18yr old and me 24 she said this is first time for her but i did not found any single drop blood... she is virgin or??? then i am doing sex with her since 7months but result the same no blood so i am so confused about her virginity... so please tell me she is virgin or not??? cause i planed to marry her so please tell me exactly how would i know.....
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Jul 17, 2012, 03:30 PM
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i do sex with a girl she is 18yr old and me 24 she said this is first time for her but i did not found any single drop blood... she is virgin or??? then i am doing sex with her since 7months but result the same no blood so i am so confused about her virginity... so please tell me she is virgin or not??? cause i planed to marry her so please tell me exactly how would i know.....

Not every virgin bleeds. You either believe her or you don't.

Here's what interests me. You apparently INSIST on marrying a virgin. You have sex with her. She now is definitely not a virgin.

So what happens to her if/when you walk away because you are questioning her virginity? Does the next guy also walk away - because of you?

You have USED this girl. Shame on you. Quite frankly, you are disgusting.

Her virginity is so very important to you and months into the sexual relationship you are looking for an escape hatch, apparently in a culture which prizes virginity.

Again, stomach turning. Do her a favor. Don't believe her, decide she's not good/pure enough for you, leave. Let her find someone who truly loves her.
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Jul 17, 2012, 03:39 PM
i planned to marry her so i want to know if she is virgin why no bleeding to her why???
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Jul 17, 2012, 03:42 PM
Some women/girls do not bleed. The hymen was broken naturally by movement.
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Jul 17, 2012, 03:48 PM
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i planned to marry her so i want to know if she is virgin why no bleeding to her why???
You're really 24? You have no idea how a woman's body works.

A woman only bleeds if her hymen is still intact, and even then some women won't bleed the first time they have sex.

A hymen can be torn many different ways, and, some women are born without one.

No blood doesn't mean she wasn't a virgin. She definitely isn't a virgin now, because you've had sex with her.

So you either love her enough, trust her enough, and respect her enough, to believe her, or you use this as an excuse to leave. It's a very bad excuse, because it's not based on any evidence, but it's your choice.

Personally I don't understand why you're with someone you obviously don't trust.
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Jul 17, 2012, 03:56 PM
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You're really 24? You have no idea how a woman's body works.

A woman only bleeds if her hymen is still intact, and even then some women won't bleed the first time they have sex.

A hymen can be torn many different ways, and, some women are born without one.

No blood doesn't mean she wasn't a virgin. She definitely isn't a virgin now, because you've had sex with her.

So you either love her enough, trust her enough, and respect her enough, to believe her, or you use this as an excuse to leave. It's a very bad excuse, because it's not based on any evidence, but it's your choice.

Personally I don't understand why you're with someone you obviously don't trust.
i trust her i lover n off course i marry her i ask a question
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Jul 17, 2012, 04:02 PM
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i trust her i lover n off course i marry her i ask a question
And your question has been answered, many times, yet you continue to ask.

So, if you trust her, then trust her. Personally, I can't see how you trust her. If you did, you wouldn't have asked this question to begin with.
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