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drboni · May 24, 2009, 07:11 AM

My wife and I were having a discussion regarding sexual positions and what is the favorite sex position for a man, the one that most men would like the best. I felt that is was with the woman on the bottom with her legs pulled back and spread wide with her holding them in this position or the man holding them. She does not like this position because see says she gets no stimulation and can not have an orgasm. She likes it when her legs are down and together with me on top which makes it difficult for me to maintain for any length of time because my knees are not under me and I need to hold myself up like a "push-up" on your knees. So we were wondering what position is the most liked for men or women.:confused:

Hathor · May 24, 2009, 11:16 AM

Well, no one really knows the true answer. We need a poll for that.

Personally, as a woman, I prefer the standardised missionary position during lovemaking because we can see each other's faces and to me it's the most sensual position of all. But to reach organism more quickly and effectively, I prefer from behind as the penetration is deeper. Actually, my boyfriend was really surprised when I told him about this. He thought most women take it from behind (through vaginal, not anus) just because they want to please their men, a lot of whom would be aroused seeing his partner's bums.

bronzebabe · May 24, 2009, 02:20 PM

Hmm, that's very interesting. I always thought that most men liked "doggy" because they can thrust in deeper and better. As a female, I don't mind any of them. Maybe I'm just weird.

Fr_Chuck · May 24, 2009, 02:38 PM

A mans favorite position is the one he is getting next or the one he just had. It is often more the just having, than the position

drboni · May 24, 2009, 09:18 PM

Originally Posted by Hathor

Well, no one really knows the true answer. We need a poll for that.

Personally, as a woman, I prefer the standardised missionary position during lovemaking because we can see each other's faces and to me it's the most sensual position of all. But to reach organism more quickly and effectively, I prefer from behind as the penetration is deeper. Actually, my boyfriend was really surprised when I told him about this. He thought most women take it from behind (through vaginal, not anus) just because they want to please their men, a lot of whom would be aroused seeing his partner's bums.

Perhaps a poll would be a good idea. The issue in my question pertains to weather or not the woman when on the bottom likes it better with her legs spread wide and pulled back as far as possible to give the deepest penetration or if she likes it better with her legs down flat on the bed and together or any position between the two extremes.

drboni · May 24, 2009, 09:23 PM

Originally Posted by bronzebabe

Hmm, that's very interesting. I always thought that most men liked "doggy" because they can thrust in deeper and better. As a female, I don't mind any of them. Maybe I'm just weird.

"Doggy" is also my favorite for the very reasons you give. But the question is what does the woman like better when on her back. Is it with her legs spread wide and pulled all the way back as far as possible or with her legs down flat on the bed and together or any position in between the two extremes.

Justwantfair · May 24, 2009, 09:35 PM

There are so many positions that are ideal for men and women that would make a poll endless.

What works for one woman, may or may not be a favorite for another. Find the ones that you enjoy and always try to throw a new position in, whenever possible. If those are your two favorite positions, try them each for a bit, switching in some alternatives and new ambitious positions.

Sometimes on top of being unstimulated, as we age our bodies lose that ability to maintain an over the head, wide eagle spread for extended times... and unless a painful experience is the goal, switching positions often can aleviate some of the discomfort of maintaining difficult positions for either party.

KISS · May 24, 2009, 09:42 PM

"Cowgirl" and "reverse cowgirl" allow the women much more control over stimulation.

Justwantfair · May 24, 2009, 09:44 PM

Originally Posted by KeepItSimpleStupid

"Cowgirl" and "reverse cowgirl" allow the women much more control over stimulation.

And personally 'reverse cowgirl' is one of my least favorite positions, as a female. :D

Alty · May 24, 2009, 09:59 PM

Originally Posted by Justwantfair

And personally 'reverse cowgirl' is one of my least favorite positions, as a female. :D

Same here! :)

Like Justy said before, everyone is different. What works for one person won't work for another.

The key is communication between you and your partner, figure out what the two of you like and then go from there.

saffron2903 · May 25, 2009, 06:51 AM

Originally Posted by drboni

Perhaps a poll would be a good idea. The issue in my question pertains to weather or not the woman when on the bottom likes it better with her legs spread wide and pulled back as far as possible to give the deepest penetration or if she likes it better with her legs down flat on the bed and together or any position between the two extremes.

I pefer on top to any other posistion as I get to control what's going on but when I am on bottom I would def pefer my legs pulled back as far as they can without being spread too wide as then I get the deep penetration and my legs quite close together but that's just my personal preferance.

Meow420 · May 25, 2009, 10:12 AM

Originally Posted by Justwantfair

And personally 'reverse cowgirl' is one of my least favorite positions, as a female. :D

Oh my god, reverse cowgirl sux as a woman lol I agree.
Our legs give way, its hard to balance... can't do that one for long at all... lol

shazamataz · May 25, 2009, 10:55 AM

Originally Posted by Meow420

oh my god, reverse cowgirl sux as a woman lol i agree.
Our legs give way, its hard to balance.... can't do that one for long at all...lol

Same here... your legs give out pretty quick then you have to lean on your arms... not a pretty view I'm sure :p

One of my favourite is the spooning position... the more you arch your back the deeper you can go or vice versa... puts you in control of what happens unlike doggy (which isn't bad, but not a favourite)

Meow420 · May 25, 2009, 11:00 AM

Originally Posted by shazamataz

One of my favourite is the spooning position...

Spooning is great when you want to be a bit lazy too! Love it :p

shazamataz · May 25, 2009, 11:14 AM

Originally Posted by Meow420

spooning is great when you want to be a bit lazy too! Love it :p

Early mornings when you aren't fully awake yet ;)

mugger · May 25, 2009, 06:35 PM

Me upright, woman on her side with top leg wrapped around me. Awesome!

Alty · May 25, 2009, 06:40 PM

Do I really have to pick just one? This sucks!

I agree with the reverse cowgirl, it's funny how guys seem to think it's our fav when really, I think it's theirs. Not a big fan.

I like cowgirl, but more fun if you switch it up. Who says you have to pick a position and stick with it for the entire time?

Doggy style is okay, hits a lot of great spots, but only if the guy knows what he's doing. I don't like to be jackhammered into the head board, head injuries tend to spoil the mood.

Spooning, love it, but again, only with a guy that knows his stuff. Too many times it's "you slipped out again?" TMI?

So many positions, so little time... sigh.

drboni · May 25, 2009, 09:37 PM

Originally Posted by saffron2903

I pefer on top to any other posistion as i get to control whats going on but when i am on bottom i would def pefer my legs pulled back as far as they can without being spred too wide as then i get the deep penetration and my legs quite close together but thats just my personal preferance.

Thanks for the straight forward answer. YOu have been the only one to say which you like the best when on the bottom, legs up or down. Hopefully some other girls can answer this also.

shazamataz · May 26, 2009, 05:26 AM

Originally Posted by drboni

Thanks for the straight forward answer. YOu have been the only one to say which you like the best when on the bottom, legs up or down. Hopefully some other girls can answer this also.

You never asked that specific question?
You only asked what position people liked best...

I agree with Alty... why stick with just one position? Lol

OK well when I'm doing boring 'ol missionary I prefer my legs up, how's that?

Justwantfair · May 26, 2009, 06:47 AM

I still don't understanding having to choose.

Of course it's cowboy if I just want an easy Ooooo!

I love when a man is sitting and riding on top from that position, that is probably my #2.

My absolute favorite is being mounted from behind with your legs closed, it just seems so submissive I guess and I love that, but I might fly solo on this #1. :D