im a virgin. me and my boyfriend plan on having sex sometime soon. it concerns me that he is a lot more sexual that i am. it doesnt really bother me (and because of this am i abnormal?) also i was just wondering once he startes gettin sex from me, will the novelty like wear off. im worried that once we start that is all he will ever want and im afraid incase we cant do normal things again like taking the dog for a walk or going out for a meal or to the cinema of just cuddling up and watching tv.

also is it normal for a guy to tell you he masturbates?

Xrayman

yes eventually the novelty will wear off-sad but true.

no you are not abnormal, but you might want to see how you feel AFTER you have sex to determine if you really do or don't like it.

I doubt that you will have sex while the dog goes unwalked, watching tv and going for a meal-that's a little too much!

guys masturbate-if they tell you, you know they're not lying. if they tell you they don't, well then they're lying!! it is normal for a guy to tell you if he knows you are trustworthy.

Choux

You sound like a teenager who is being manipulated by a more sophisticated guy into having sex with him. I don't think you are ready to engage in sexual realtions with him because of this. So what if he masturbates! That is not your problem to solve by having sex with him!!

Recent studies of females has shown that the longer a girl can put off having sex in her teen age years, she will be much better off later on in her life. It is a matter or maturation and total physical development. Don't be a little girl used by a guy who doesn't really care about you. It is very difficult to recover from being used to "service" men. You have so much more to lose than you have to gain.

Good Luck!