Hi all...

I have a question about marriage and sex. I prefer sex at night, when we go to bed and my husband prefers it in the morning, when we wake up. I have a problem with it in the morning because sometimes (like this morning) a child is in our bed because of a bad dream, illness or whatever. Does anyone else have this problem? Does anyone have any ideas on what to do about our completely different desires? Honestly, I could try, but it does take a lot more work for me to get going. It's like have to totally clear my mind before I can truly enjoy the situation. We are both a little frustrated.

Thanks for any advice you can offer.