Sex in the morning or evening? Trouble!

aqua@home · Nov 30, 2006, 07:16 AM

Hi all...

I have a question about marriage and sex. I prefer sex at night, when we go to bed and my husband prefers it in the morning, when we wake up. I have a problem with it in the morning because sometimes (like this morning) a child is in our bed because of a bad dream, illness or whatever. Does anyone else have this problem? Does anyone have any ideas on what to do about our completely different desires? Honestly, I could try, but it does take a lot more work for me to get going. It's like have to totally clear my mind before I can truely enjoy the situation. We are both a little frustrated.

Thanks for any advice you can offer.

smoothy · Apr 10, 2007, 11:57 AM

Personally we tend to do it whenever the other feels the need. Morning or night....hell I've had her wake me up at 3:00 am before. Always made it clear whenever she feels a need, then I'm there for it. She in turn has responded in kind.

nvn68 · Apr 10, 2007, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by aqua@home

Hi all...

I have a question about marriage and sex. I prefer sex at night, when we go to bed and my husband prefers it in the morning, when we wake up. I have a problem with it in the morning because sometimes (like this morning) a child is in our bed because of a bad dream, illness or whatever. Does anyone else have this problem? Does anyone have any ideas on what to do about our completely different desires? Honestly, I could try, but it does take a lot more work for me to get going. It's like have to totally clear my mind before I can truely enjoy the situation. We are both a little frustrated.

Thanks for any advice you can offer.

in fact male wakes up in a fresh mood and wants it

SHAVED · Apr 13, 2007, 11:51 PM

Sex is something which both of you have to adjust according to your moods and requirements. In my opinion sex in the morning is a very good idea. At nihgt both male and female will be little bit exhausted after their work (Office, site, house or wherever it is). Both male and female will be very enthusiastic and fresh in the morning to have a really good sex but both of them should feel it comfortable. You may have it both times to satisfy both of your moods but I can understand why your husband is asking to have sex in the morning, he will be fresh, enthusiastic and very very active. Personally I like it in the morning