Hi all...

I have a question about marriage and sex. I prefer sex at night, when we go to bed and my husband prefers it in the morning, when we wake up. I have a problem with it in the morning because sometimes (like this morning) a child is in our bed because of a bad dream, illness or whatever. Does anyone else have this problem? Does anyone have any ideas on what to do about our completely different desires? Honestly, I could try, but it does take a lot more work for me to get going. It's like have to totally clear my mind before I can truely enjoy the situation. We are both a little frustrated.

Thanks for any advice you can offer.

aqua@home

Thanks again kp. My husband is more than willing to make sure I get my "cookie" too...everytime. However, I don't like how it can take so long, I don't like worrying about my breath or any of the other little hang-ups I have about myself. I think that if I could let go of some of those things maybe it wouldn't take me so long to get going in the morning. I think he is just much more ready for it than I am. I am trying. Thanks.

DrJ

Wow.. thats a tough one. Not that I have a choice (or that I would turn it down if it wasnt when I wanted it) but I typically enjoy it more in the morning. Usually, our nights are long as it is an we may not get into bed until 3-3:30 (both of us also working at bars). So I find myslef quite exhausted at that point. The mornings, I am refreshed and awake and ready to go. However, that morning breathe issue (as someone mentioned) puts a small damper on it. The nooner is always nice, as is the mid-morninger, the afternooner, the early eveninger, the later eveninger, the midnight snack, etc.... lol

Fr_Chuck

for morning breath, it is ok, to get up, go to the bathroom and brush your teeth and jump back in bed,

or a pack of breath mints on the bed table is not a bad thing either.

kp2171

oh, and my other fav saying about trying to find time to make time with kids in the house.

even false hope is still hope.

=)

aqua@home

LOL...that 's good kp2171.

Sometimes that's all I have. I will have to work on putting the kids and everything out of my mind. It seems like my brain never gets a rest. I dream all night and think think think all day. Anyway...back to the topic, thanks for all the advice, I will continue to work on this. I am glad to hear that I am not so abnormal. Thanks.

closefriend29

honest reply - do it both times

vvelodiya

sex in night is right way but at morning more pleasent

vvelodiya

i prefer either early (i mean not in late night)or early in the morning try to flow as the same way as river(husband)trust me u will enjoy

nimeshpatel

sex is one filling
that is not particular time
when u have desire any time u can do it
and dont press your desire

pink4life252

i think that you should try sex in the morning and at night and see which one you like better. personally i like sex at morning and night.