ive been talking to this girl for some time she is 26 and has slept with 26 guys is this normal or too much in other words should i be careful? i dont wanna judge her but i gotta feel some kind of emotion towards this issue.

angiendaniel

With the way things are now, it is normal. Just try to find out the time span in which she slept with this many people, if they are all within a few years, stay clear! If you really like her, don't let this scare you away. Just be sure that before you have sex with her that you both get STD and HIV tests! She might take it wrong, but it will help you to be safe and if she can't understand that, then she isn't worth your time

Krs

I personally think its too much, But whats too much in this day and age

LUNAGODDESS

OK...if she had been in bed with 26 men that means one guy a year...the question is she a nice person...holds a great conversation...active...has other interest...is not dilly in the center...gives you the attention when you need it...I bet she is not counting the women you have been with...some women prefer men that had other sexual conquests...If she is this reasonable person then you have no problem ...the only issue is safe sex...cover it up and use spermicide...make sure she is on some sort of birth control and make sure that if you do not want any children...do... make sure you have addressed that issue...enjoy the adventure and protect yourself...any thing else is a waste of time...

charlie123

Please, Please, Please - HIV TEST!

If you really care about her & are thinking of having sex with her - you should tell her your worries. It doesn't necessarily mean that she's a bad person - but that she's made some poor decisions. If she is ashamed & wishes she hadn't been that promiscuous - then I might would give her a chance. If she doesn't seem to care - or thinks that's normal then I would suggest really take a close look at what type of person she is & decide if she is really the kind of person you want to be around.

yassely

Me Tooooo I Think Thats Too Much N She's Just 26 Ok But U Kno If U Like Her Go Ahead B With Her But Heyy Protect Ur Self U Kno Wit Waat N Everythin Will B Find

thatgirl

i dont like to judge people either but i think that number is too much

Depressed in MO

Well, everyone has their own opinion, but only yours counts. Just make sure you are having protected sex with her in the first place, this will be able to take a lot of weight off of your shoulders regarding this subject.
If you are concerned about your personal moral thoughts about the issue-then you may not want to mess with her at all. No one can decide that for you. Only you know what makes you comfortable. Best of luck

LucyMcgoo

I think it's WAAAAAAAAAY too much.

yassely

yeah man we cant judge but u know u gotta think if u wanna b for real wit her or just a messin around