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Really, people are always talking about the marvels of small breasts, but then small chested women feel inadequate and are often complaining, because everything we see in the media are big breasts, breast augmentation is rising, etc, etc. Glamour models are all a D cup or above. Big breasts are glorified. We then see articles like this Chest Implants
But then again, the discussions on internet forums and blogs always come up saying that big breasts aren't the sexiest, or such a great thing. That small is better, that it's nicer, etc, etc. Then big busted women are left to feel insecure, not to mention, because all of the negative attention they recieve every day (be it treated as a walking pair of boobs, or catty comments by women). Some fashion styles are only made with small breasts in mind. To top it off, naturally busty women feel bad because the ideal is perky big breasts, kind of hard to come by naturally, easy to come by with surgery.
I admit I belong to the first group. I have smallish breasts, and I feel insecure all the time because most every advert I see, there's a busty woman. And most of the time, they're not even natural. So I feel unsexy. It's been hard trying to embrace this, but I'm getting there.
It's hard being a woman in these times. We should just stop bringing out the negative of both sizes and just focus on the positives of both. Then we'll be happier. The most beautiful breast is the one that is capable of nurturing a child. Therefore every breast is beautiful. Every size is wonderful. Let's stop the madness!
The media has all kinds of ways of making us feel like sheep, that is if you let them. Why should anyone judge them-self on the opinion of any other human?
I turn magazines around if women are "exploited" on the cover. Only the checkstand I went through, but if everyone either ignored or disdained the concept of "attractive is valuable" it would fade a bit.
People are visual, especially men. That's fine. But, how a person looks does not reflect her intrinsic value as a human being. Photography and filmmaking in the US is very much about how the subjects appear. Check out some French films, the visual concepts are staggeringly different.
There is also the mistaken notion that large breasts make more milk. Wrong! The average mammary gland, which is the size of a small fried egg is capable of producing enormous amounts of milk. Large breasts are either mostly fat, or mostly silicone, neither of which creates milk.
Look at the positive side, you can go jogging without tons of bouncing. My husband has finally given up talking me into getting my breasts enlarged. I just kept reminding him that I'll do it just as soon as he had his penis downsized. It's too big.
i don't necessarily feel bad or ashamed that i have big boobs. the only thing is that my husband is not a breast man, he's an a@@ man. so all my 38 DD glory goes to waste. Plus, the older I get, the farther they sag and drop off to the side. Also, they hurt my back so bad sometimes i wanna cry. trust me, big boobs aren't worth the trouble. I would rather have smaller ones because they are, shall we say, easier to maintain. lol
I've been both small breasted and big. Before I had my kids I was a B cup, now, after having two children I'm a DD. Just be happy with what you have. There are too many women going for unnecessary surgery just to fit in.
I think it's the same for guys, no? They always talk about how size doesn't matter...then you hear about certain guys on campus that are glorified due to their rocket. Granted, yes, it's more difficult as our manhood isn't really visible unless we're wearing speedos.
I'll admit, I'm a breast man...but yes, there is such a thing as being "too big"...
I've been with girls that have been 34DD...and have been 34A...really, the girl matters more than her chest does.
If we were to actually look at the women on the covers of magazines,on TV or movies, we find that none of them are not as flawless as they are made out to be.
Many photographs are touched up to cover up any flaws,or enhance shape,skin,lips etc.
If we were to follow the fashions that change everyday,then we would never be satisfied,because women's bodies are changing as time passes.Following fashions exactly as the media portrays is not the way to feel good about ourselves.Many designer clothes are made for people who can afford to look good or ridiculous as they please.
As a woman myself I find that I do not see two beautiful women who have the same assets,I have seen some with such beautiful eyes that one hardly notices anything else,while others are simply attractive as a whole person,while others are nothing like the models or actresses,but they exude(sp) such warmth that it is enough to make them beautiful.
Breast size is an issue with many women,teenages want to have bigger breasts,but the older we get we start to realise that breasts dont always look the way they did when we were younger.
I am sure many older women have more pressing concerns than their breasts size and old age is something none of us can stay away from.
Even those that go for surgery seem to want to reshape every now and then as our bodies never seem perfect depending on our focus regarding our bodies.
I think a lot of how we feel about our bodies,breasts etc has to do with how confident we feel and how much we depend on others opinions to make us feel good.
Personally breast size has never been an issue for me,when younger I was not looking for compliments on my body from anyone and now married with a kid,my husband who loves me for who I am, loves the way I look.
And I dress as I please and not to please others who may or may not think me beautiful.
I believe having a healthy body which is a blessing in itself.
There is no one right size....If a woman keeps her weight in check....even "A" cups are nice. Do I like big ones? Sometimes if they are real...do I like small ones? yes again. Now That is talking normal women with average breasts.
If you have had a mastecomy...have certain issues where they might be grossly misshapen or one is dramatically larger than the other or from raising children ......lets say they have nearly completely deflated. Orange in a gym sock type thing. Then you might have real self esteme issues as a result. In those cases cosmetic surgery can be your friend. It can set right what nature has wreaked havoc upon.
But don't be pining over DD breasts when nature gave you a perfectly nice set of B cups....Bigger is not always better. Particularly if its just for the sake of being bigger.
If a woman is trying to please someone else, *nothing is ever right* for anyone associated with her.
There is a lot of pressure in the American culture on females, and how they look, from the advertising industry in all media. Women have to understand that there is more to a woman that the size of her breasts or any other physical attribute! There are many facets of themselves that women can develop while they are living and growing.
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