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troublemakerman, I guess "bf" stands for boyfriend as it usually does, and she is in fact a girl because she said "with another girl..I am bi-curious".

Said that, I think one of the better...

A couple friends (male) mentioned that after a while with the same person, when the novelty of sex wears out, they are not as excited about sleeping with the girl as they were at the beginning. Some...

My honest opinion about your situation is that your boyfriend raped you, and that it was no accident on his part, or 'getting carried away' or anything, because he had tried this thing before. Plus...

I personally wouldn't worry too much about pregnancy, first, she was on birth control, and second, given the state he was in, I doubt anything happened at all.

I'd like to insist on the second...

No this is not rape. She asked you to go to another room and kiss her, and you did, on several occasions, although you could have simply walked away, right? Rape is when you do not, or can not,...

I'd say don't talk about it beforehand, in my opinion that would be awkward and counter productive, sometimes things have to take their natural course. Let her get to know you better at dinner. Make...

- Is it normal to date, or go on dates with multiple guys without being a girlfriend?

Yes. But if you keep having dates with the same guy you should address the matter somehow, so that you're...

To answer the OP's question, no, not everyone would object, and quite a few people I know have done it, or would find it acceptable in this situation. It's just a 3-day trip and his girlfriend is...

Well, one good thing that's come out of all this. (You going to the gym, that is).

I'm intrigued though... you have an awsome resume and a college education and a business school and you work in...

I don't think it's his "pain", I think he's a jerk and he's very posessive and controlling. He dumped you... but, what, he expected you to stay faithful to him, wait for him, and never date another...

As simple as that? I thought you lived together?

You're much better off without him though. From your post he sounded like a complete jerk. Seriously.

I don't see how it's going to work out. Only one year has passed and you're already frustrated enough to see advice on a forum. How will you be able to wait 6 more years without sex? Apparently, to...

I once read somewhere that the best advice for teenage boys looking for girlfriends, is to stop looking, and start shaping themselves to become good boyfriend material by the time they're 18-20.

I...

He wants "thinking space" when you are in a mess and need all support he can give?

Sorry, this man doesn't look right to me.

And about birth control, after the pill failed for the first time,...

Maybe girls with self-respect aren't looking for a boy whose only line to describe himself is "I can bench 300 and squat 400 and I have a nice car". Those who have been "getting around" probably are....

I can't really think of any "relationship" advice because, obviously, if you stay in one place for 4 months and then move on, the most you will get is a 4-month long relationship and then turn it...

I kind of see the logic behind that. At some point - especially on early stages of the relationship - one can get so absorbed by the other person, want to spend every minute with him, become...

The fact that he doesn't hit the kids doesn't mean he isn't abusing or traumatising them physchologically. Living in a house where the father goes around yelling at his wife, smashing things and...

What's the point of copy-pasting the bible here? I believe if she wanted to read a bible she would have got herself a copy or something.

On to the question, you say you're down in general.. well,...

Two weeks is nothing. You say before that she used to text you. Now she's texting this guy she's only met once. She said she wasn't good at longterm relationships for a reason.

Walk away now,...

My blood is still boiling about you thinking of defending him in court. Ok suppose you do, and he get off free, do you think he will thank you for that or something? No, he'll come back to you...

I can't give much advice, but a similar thing happened to a friend of mine.

The girlfriend was away for several months, the boyfriend had this other girl chasing him, and he ended up sleeping...

Whereas it does sound like he's putting pressure on you now, and that's not too nice, I also agree with him about the "with love comes attraction" bit.

You didn't say if you didn't have sex with...

So you're saying it's been going on for two weeks? I would have dropped by his place or called a friend or a parent (depending on your age) long ago. After 2 years together you should have enough...

Well, she does work and earn money, so technically speaking she didn't need to report the missing $80 to you, did she? And the $1500 she could have won, well, it'd be her money, right? I guess she's...

If you carry on with the relationship and try to keep it secret at the same time, at some point your brother will find out and THEN he sure will be upset about the two of you lying to him. From the...

Sometimes one night stands are just that. Not all lead to second dates, but what's wrong with that? Look on the positive side, you had a good time on valentine's day. Maybe he's got a lot going on...

You think she must show remorse to you? (Apart from the unprotected sex and then putting you at risk, wrong wrong). You broke up with her, she slept with someone else, the way I see it, she owed you...

I say forget this guy. You saw each other a few times during a couple weeks, it didn't work out, well, I guess you just weren't compatible or he didn't like you when he got to know you. I don't see...

"Prior to our relationship he was able to masturbate but now cant"? How is that? And if he's in so much pain, why hasn't he gone to the doctor yet? He's got a medical problem and he should have...

I don't think it's about alcohol at all, it simply doesn't make any sense - if you have one beer on Monday, what does the next beer on Wednesday have to do with alcoholism, safety or health? It's...

With me, it makes me sick. Not as in puking but as in nauseous and dizzy. With my friends, I'd say it relaxes them somewhat but it's nothing too special. Personally, I never understood weed. I...

So if a bi man has sex with a man on Monday, and with a woman on Tuesday, what does it make him? Gay on Monday and straigh on Tuesday? No, it makes him bi. That's the concept behind, that at some...

Excuse me, what were you trying to say with that statistics, "asking"? Who are "the Europeans" you mentioned? The British? A rather poor sample, isn't it?

More often than not, it's not how much...

I'm surprised to see how anti-abortion this forum is. Everyone who has mentioned abortion has gotten replies like "how dare you say that", "abortion should not be an option"... Abortion is a...

Well I don't think it's a "blessing" to have a man that can't bring himself to have a sexual relationship with somebody he's supposed to be in love with. I reckon everyone deserves an honest and...

First of all, I don't think it's about all men being attracted to skinny women. I have a friend who's got a 60kg limit (60kg is roughly 132lbs), as in his perfect girl would weigh 60kg. For a...

Act clumsy and nervous (i.e. don't do anything, let him do all the work, plus, you'll be nervous anyway, albeit for other reasons). Some women don't bleed during their first time, so just leave it...

Italy is cheaper. Also I think it's a better choice seeing as to how the weather is better, there's beaches and stuff, and loads of museums, monuments, picturesque towns in general.

I do like asking the numbers. And not only my partners', but also my friends'. It's purely out of curiosity - I don't see anything wrong with knowing (or telling) it. In any case, as you get to...

You can still organize that dinner/party with all of his friends.. at somebody's house. Yours, a friend's... but I guess that would be the obvious choice and you won't be asking for advice if you...

Trying to be mean or not, but twinkie was right about health; 5'3'' and 200lb is not healthy, go check the body mass index, this ratio gives you a 34 when 30 is the obesity limit (20 is "normal" )....

I think this partying/drinking is a stage most people grow out of. Happened to me, happened to my friends. Takes you a couple of embarrassing moments to realise how stupid you act when drunk. Or...

Yeah, normally a girl would gain a couple pounds after every sexual intercourse - visible on the morning after - so couples with an active sex life usually end up dying from obesity.

The answers...

Are you sure you don't have a crush on the guy and want to use the 'helping the drug addict' excuse to get close to him? I bet sharing a secret makes you feel so intimate. And, unless he's doing...

She has to dump her boyfriend only because the poor sod enjoys anal sex? Riight...

First of all, the original question didn't really invite people to doubt the morality of anal sex. She was just...

High school is harder than being a little kid, but it doesn't get much easier from then onwards. However, I don't think it gets much worse either. You go to college just as you used to go to...

I have a friend who admitted to having slept with, say, 6 guys.. while in fact it was close to 50. Her boyfriend found the actual piece of paper with a complete listing of all the 40+ guys. I don't...

6 months before sex? Open-minded and unconventional? I see...

I guess he refuses to talk about it because he thinks a lot of time has passed already, and he can't take it any longer. It's about time you moved on - or broke up for sanity's sake.

And that sex...