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There's a techinique called the "Stop-Start technique" that is often used for this issue. You would start to have sex with him, but as he becomes more aroused, you need to stop, back off, and allow...

I'd be careful about being willing to give this up for the sake of the relationship. It has been my experience with cross-dressers that this is not something that will just go away if you don't do it...

I highly suggest getting a copy of "Anal Sex and Health". This will give you all you need to know, both physically and psychologically, to enjoy anal sex. And remember... there is no such thing as...

You may need to see a urologist. It could be a medical or a psychological problem (although usually some combination of the two.)

After seeing a general practitioner, he should consult a urulogist. If the problem doesn't turn out to be medical/physical, he may want to consider seeing a therapist that specializes in these issues.

Rough sex can include anything from a little hair pulling and a spank or two to something resembling forced sex (although done consensually.) It can include elements of SM, but not necessarily. It's...

I recommend looking through the articles and information on StraightGuise: StraightGuise | It's not a gay thing, it's a guy thing!

I agree. You need to talk to him. Assure him that he'l get his chance to orgasm, but that you need more stimulation and sensuality to get there.

Men often take time to "recover" after having an orgasm. I recommend doing activities (like bring in a vibrator or clitoral stimulation) that will give you several orgasms and the ability to keep...

An interest in anal sex does not have anything to do with sexual orientation. It is true that gay porn is more likely to show men having anal sex, and if your husband has an interest in this...

I have to agree here. Whether he's spending his time for himself masturbating to porn or playing video games or watching sports on television, what does it really matter? As long as he's still there...

Try some sexy games that may allow each of your to role play a little. Change where you are having sex, what you each wear (or don't) during sex, etc.

In the end, if you don't find your spouse...

Agreed. You need to see a licensed sex therapist in your area. You can check the AASECT website for listings: http://www.aasect.org American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists

Every woman has times when she is dry. It's perfectly normal and has nothing to do with your sex drive or ability to enjoy sex.

Also, make sure whatever lube you use is waterbased. Some lubricants...

The act itself doesn't necessarily make him gay or bi. Our sexual orientation is based on how we define ourselves, and not necessarily on our behaviors.

What he is is someone who cheated on his...

I have to agree that if you are worried about him cheating, this has nothing to do with being bisexual.

What you should do is encourage him to talk with you about his feelings and interests. This...

It could be something as harmless as gas, or it could be something more severe like a cyst. Best to get an OB/GYN exam to be sure.

It's also entirely possible that other stressors are making your sex drive lower than usual. If you haven't had enough sleep, are stressing about work or money or the relationship, any of these...

It's very normal, especially if he's been experiencing stress or lack of sleep due to overwork, illness, etc. Interestingly, having sex can be very calming and relaxing, thus allowing the person to...

It may be due to his size. If he has a larger than average penis, it may take a LOT of stimulation for him to reach orgasm. Also, he may need other types of stimulation, just as many women do, in...

First of all, humiliation is in the eye of the beholder. She may or may not feel humiliated.

Sounds like you have a lovely submissive, possible masochist, on your hands that you need to learn to...

It's very normal for young men, regardless of experience, to want to or to actually ejaculate quickly early on in a sexual relationship. You can masturbate earlier in the day to help ease the...

It is entirely normal for non-lactating women to have discharge from their nipples during sexual stimulation. If the liquid smells funny or is yellowish in color, or if your nipples seem painful or...

It is possible that your hymen is thicker than average, which could make it painful. See your gynecologist and have it removed. It's a simple procedure.

If you are experiencing some amount of...

Receiving oral sex can be very difficult. It is the ultimate in letting go and allowing the other person complete control. Has the dynamic in your relationship changed? Do you feel differently about...

There are a couple of things you may want to investigate here...

If using condoms is painful because you're not circumcisized, you may want to consider having this done. Many adult men choose to...

It sounds like what really needs to happen here is not forcing your husband into a sexual situation but giving him time to adjust to so many stressors and helping him relax.

Maybe you can arrange...

Ultimately, you need to be honest with yourself and the women you're interested in. What can be hard to understand is that you will never find anyone who will fulfill ALL of your needs and...

Likely, you are stimulating your clitoris with your hand during intercourse, which is not unusual at all. Many women cannot have orgasms vaginally and need clitoral stimulation. Maybe you could show...

It is not unusual for someone to have a sexual or emotional interest in someone of the same sex. It does not necessarily mean they are gay or bi. That's really something she will determine for...

That can depend on many factors -- age, health, how much sleep you've both had recently, are there kids in the house? do you want it to take a long time?. There's no set formula.

Actually, men don't have to ejaculate regularly to stay healthy.

It is possible that if he is masturbating and able to reach orgasm, but is unable to reach orgasm during intercourse, that there...

Everyone changes during a relationship. Although there really isn't enough information to have the whole story here, there could be many reasons he's finishing first. You should also know, that's not...

It is not unusual for women in their mid-twenties-mid-thirties to feel highly sexually. Physiologically, this is when you have the most estrogen and other hormones going through your body (not...

You seem to be under a lot of stress and are full of emotion that needs an outlet.

There seem to be several things happening all at once in your post. I'm seeing these issues:
1) His time being...

First of all, bisexuality and monogamy are different things. A person being one does not mean he/she cannot be the other.

It is often assumed that bisexuals are less likely to be in monogamous...