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Thanks duck- nice post. Yes.. I definiately have played with fire a few time hoping to get a different reaction then I did. Trust me.. moving on from this point on is going to be easy... it's just...

Emo- You don't know why I have what, a current girlfriend? If you're going to post a vague stab- save it.
If that is indeed what you are implying.. then I will answer it. I have a girlfriend...

Gemini- I respect your input and agree with some of your comments. I remind you that until she re-initiated contact with me, I had not spoken/txt/had any contact with her at all for several months. ...

Threads merged again. Please keep all questions regarding the same issue in the same thread.

Just need to vent, possibly hear some peoples input and thoughts..

Its been over a year since me...

Gee.. this is a tough one.. you started with
"He has decided to leave me because I wasn't honnest with him"

And you end it with
"I'm 100% innocent!!"

Wake up babe... as others said, you lied...

Jay- stop thinking with the head in between your legs and use your brain bro. You're approving this girl cheat on her significant other with you, because you enjoyed it? Who cares if you or her, OR...

Jessica- you better address this problem before you get any deeper into the relationship/love. Although sex in a relationship isn't the only part, it is a big part to a lot of people. Because with...

Sinder- don't get down on yourself at all. Like the others said, this is NOT your fault. You were probably satisfied right? And you probably thought she was also since she never addressed it, or...

You still love him? Let me twist this...

Do you think he was LOVING you while he was being intimate with another female? While he was sucking on her face, ripping her clothes off, and climbing...

Tuck- you said you have been together for two years? Have you always been far apart (3 hours?) or is this a new change? If you have always made an effort to see each other more often then 1-2 a...

Cooltothecore- doesn't sound like you were too cool to your girl man! Just from your post you said:
*You became a complete monster
*You drank too much
*You didn't care about finding a job
*You...

Yup None12345 basically summed it up. A girl who "Takes care of herself" is just that.. she makes the effort to look the best she can at all times. This may be your hair, nails, skin, correctly...

Cris- this is related, but not answering your question directly. I saw you say "Well, I am getting the gastric bypass surgery done in the next few months, I want to be healthy, but I don't want to be...

Back off a bit.. I know how he feels from past relationships. Most guys love spending time with their girls but if they are around 24/7, call 24/7, txt 24/7, email etc we're like "Ugh!!" And I'm...

Yup- call him. Don't txt him- certainly not to start. Be confident, upfront, and set something up. You're shy and nervous now because YOU like him, all those other guys you already knew you won...

Nobody can say what the majority of woman want. I'd consider myself very physically fit so therefore I am attracted to females that are also very physically fit. But I know plenty of guys who like...

Buto- Take this for what it's worth, get out. I'm 31, I have started a new relationship also and if there ever comes a point where I say to my girlfriend/significant other "I'm not going to tell you...

Have to agree with KC here. If the girl cancels the date-especially last minute and doesn't take into consideration my time- its now on her to make the plans. Try again and again? No thanks.. been...

Ugh.. Arle- did you notice from your post you basically put this chick on a pedastal before you have even hung out with her more then once? "She was gorgeous, model figure, smart (med school), and...

Ok modded... ask her out on a date. Have the time, the place, and the activities all ready to go. Girls like a guy who can plan, and make decisions on their own/take initiative. If she denies...

Mul- this is what you do.

"Hi "Person you like",

I don't think we should talk anymore, for obvious reasons. I had a blast, best of luck with your new perfect person. Take care.

"Click".
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He could be busy and not be able to have a full blown conversation. See if he calls you/txt you after work, or later on. Guys really aren't as complicated as girls make us out to be. It's simple.....

Oh geezz... if you want to tell him how you feel verbally outside of kissing/hugging PLEASE do so. Sometimes us guys REALLY want to HEAR how you feel also and not just through actions. I myself am...

Well.. this is what you do. You give her the space she asked for and let her make her decision on her own. You made fun of her, picked on her, and proved to be a little jerk. Maybe she needs to...

Damn.. this message has red flags ALL over it. Do yourself a favor and start to move on from this guy as fast as you can. Will he ever stop being angry/abusive? Who knows.. that is NOT for you to...

Walk away and be thankful that you found out now that he is a sneaky guy. And do the same for your 'friend'... friends don't do that and she would do it again in a heart-beat.

You know the old...

Babyshooter- honestly there is nothing wrong with you, and your feelings are normal. Nobody said there is a specific time frame when you should be completely over/or even stop thinking about your...

Just reading this boils my blood as I feel for you. Are you looking to far into it? Absolutely. Because if she MISSED YOU and WANTED to hang out with you more often- she would not have waited until...

An update- I called her because I wanted to clear the air. I let her know what I am totally OK with backing off a little physically and taking it at a slower pace and she said she would like that...

Hi Knots- I will speak from my personal experience because your boyfriend sounds a lot like me in the past. Unfortunately if an argument gets too heated my defence mechanism is to walk away and if...

So I hung out with this girl a few times, and we ended up sleeping together after the 3rd night of hanging out. She was totally all for it- I was actually surprised.. but I was not going to say no....

Do girl Y a favor. Leave her alone. You said you're unhappy and it's been 4 months, etc. Just because she is close to your family, if you aren't feeling her(not literally) then let her go. You said...

Sounds like you both personal issues that need to be worked out before you engage in relationship with anyone. No pointing fingers on this one... trust, loyalty, etc go a longgg way.. learn them.
...

OK.. check this out

1) The guy is immature for a few reasons.. he felt she was getting too attached to him, so he pushed her away instead of talking to her about it? Way to have open and honest...

Sometimes I wonder how I can not figure out woman when their questions about us guys seem so simple.

If you want to know what his intentions are don't get too physical too fast. Go out...

Imlost let me make you laugh a little bit. Here is an example of my current situation, so you don't feel left out.

After 8 months of not touching/hanging out with a single girl after my ex I...

Look.. I can only go on what you wrote- but it appears the guy is into you and vice versa. You and him both feel a nice connection, and enjoy your conversations/time together. It seems the "issue"...

It just takes time. Period. Your list has a lot of good ideas, and you will be adding to that list as time goes on. Use your friends, family, pets, hobbies, work, gym, etc all to your advantage. ...

Hi Sunshine,

Hmm... for starters-how about figuring out what you did to LOSE their trust and make sure you NEVER do that again. Trust is not something to be toyed with. Trust/Open communication...

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Hi All,

Well after 8 months of being broken up with my girlfriend of 4 1/2 years I am finally able to let it go. I had been holding on, doing things I shouldn't, and having...

Wondergirl- Why am I spinning my wheels over her? Because I was ready to spend the rest of my life with her? Lol.. and unfortunately I have no desire to date lots of girls... I still don't even feel...

Threads merged because this is not a new topic, and the background info is importanr for good feedback


So I wanted to make a new topic and not add to my original post (gf 4 1/2 years ended 8...

Rome we must have the same crystal ball.. Since when did people expect to get answers without asking questions.

I mean honestly... SOO many factors could cause your husband to not be attracted...

Grr.. so let me get this right. There is a girl that you were friends with AND LIKED but regardless you wanted the guy she is in a relationship with. BUT since you don't care about her feelings at...

Hmm so let me get this right.. things about YOU directly from your question.

1) Gained Weight
2) Increased Stress
3) Anti-Depressants for depression, anger, and anxiety
4) Low sex-drive, which...

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Well.. quick recap- lost my girlfriend of 4 1/2 years about 8 months ago due to us just being on different pages/timelines..

Anyway.. recently (2 weeks ago) I saw her and went...

Ahh man... this is surely one of the most painful things to think about and picture. So.. try to not do it :) I can relate as I almost still to this day get nautious thinking about my ex with...

Ka1- you're not the only one man. If it makes you feel any better to know there are other idiots out there.. this is what I did.

I turned on an old computer I still have, and for about 2 hours I...

Hi FPJ-

Sounds like you are on a roller-coaster of a ride with this woman! It also sounds like you've been chasing after her for 8 years :( That isn't good bud. You can not be mad at yourself...

Simple- you tell him the truth. Stop waiting for the 'appropriate' time, because the longer you wait the more this guy might think your into him. Especially if you have been responsive to his...