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Dec 6, 2007, 10:05 AM
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| | | Should i wait? Ok i got saved and evrything and i have my ex boyfriend and i really want to have sex with him but on the other hand i want to wait until im married. But sometimes i get soo horny and don,t know what to do about it. Please tell me should i wait?  | | | | | | |
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Dec 6, 2007, 10:09 AM
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#3
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| should you have sex with the ex?
probably not. |
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Dec 6, 2007, 11:55 AM
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#4
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| GOD says that sex before marriage is a sin. If you are thinking about sex all the time, find something else to do with your time. Like reading. In fact, since you claimed to be saved, do a bible study on the topic of sex and see what GOD has to say about it. |
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Dec 6, 2007, 12:05 PM
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#5
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| You don't say how old you are, but I'm guessing you're young. Regardless, you should not lose your virginity to someone you are not in a stable, committed, adult relationship with and you certainly should not do it just because you are horny.
If you have been saved and part of you wants to wait until you are married, think about how you might feel if you have sex before then - will you feel guilty? Disappointed in yourself? Like you let down someone bigger than you?
The decision to become sexually active is not one that should be taken lightly. Sex changes you as a person, it changes your relationship and it opens you up to a world of change if you get pregnant or contract an STD. It's probably best for you to wait. |
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Dec 6, 2007, 12:30 PM
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| if you are asking if you are ready....you aren't ready. i'm waiting until i'm married. |
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Dec 6, 2007, 05:10 PM
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| How old are you? |
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Dec 6, 2007, 05:43 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: NYC
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| If you're not sure, then you're not ready. Don't do it until you're sure you're ready and don't do it with someone you're not in a serious committed relationship. If you do it with the wrong person or at the wrong time, you'll only wind up regretting it. You waited this long. You can wait longer until you're sure you're ready. |
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Dec 7, 2007, 10:47 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: ChicagoLand
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| HOw old are you? |
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Dec 8, 2007, 08:16 AM
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#10
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| You should wait. You don't sound as if your ready. |
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