pregnant and husband will no longer give oral

Starrviolet · Dec 30, 2007, 07:20 AM

I am 22 weeks pregnant, and ever since I found out I was, he doesnt want to give oral sex anymore. He will have intercourse with me but no oral. He tells me that he just feels wrong because our child is in there but yet he has no problem having sex with me. I dont understand.Its not like the baby can see whats happening or has any idea whats going on. What is your opinions on this? Why is he doing this and how can I get him to see it differently.

illusion48 · Jan 4, 2008, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Starrviolet

I am 22 weeks pregnant, and ever since I found out I was, he doesnt want to give oral sex anymore. He will have intercourse with me but no oral. He tells me that he just feels wrong because our child is in there but yet he has no problem having sex with me. I dont understand.Its not like the baby can see whats happening or has any idea whats going on. What is your opinions on this? Why is he doing this and how can I get him to see it differently.

There is an increased discharge during pregnancy because of the hormone changes, that has much stronger taste and smell ... Maybe your boyfriend is bothered by this but he doesn't know how to tell you. You can simply wash yourself prior to engaging in these activities. But of course talk to him before...



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