Possibilities of losing virginity

Fr_Chuck · Nov 24, 2007, 07:34 PM

Virgin, no sex, penis go in, that is sex, no more virgin.

You may or my not have broken the hymen, or it may have been broken by something else years ago.

*** if you are having sex, please use protection.
If you are not, just read the pregnant questions from 100's of teens we get here

JoeCanada76 · Nov 24, 2007, 07:34 PM

Anytime the penis enters, even if it did not cause bleeding or all the way in. Your not a virgin anymore.

As far as fingers concerned that has nothing to do with virginity.

J_9 · Nov 24, 2007, 07:35 PM

I suppose it all depends on what you call virginity. Typically virginity means sexual intercourse, if the boys penis went in ever so slightly you are no longer a virgin. Not every woman bleeds. The hymen can break in early childhood for many reasons such as horseback riding for one.

Fr_Chuck · Nov 24, 2007, 07:42 PM

Now again this does not mean your life is over, If you feel this was a mistake, it does not mean you have to keep haing sex.

IF you don't want to do it again till you find someone more special, do so.

aniko · Nov 24, 2007, 08:04 PM

Ok guys thanks for your answers. Even though I do still think that a person is a virgin until she bleeds. I mean that incident only happened once, and I stopped it before it was too late. But do you think that it would be embarrassing to see a gynecologist for an advice, or even for an accurate answer? And if no, then how should I ask?

aniko · Nov 24, 2007, 08:08 PM

Ok guys thanks for your answers, though I still believe that a person is no longer a virgin after she actually bleeds. But do you think it was be embarrassing to ask a gyno. Just to be on the safe side? And how can I ask so it wouldn't be awkward?

charlotte234s · Nov 24, 2007, 08:09 PM

You shouldn't be embarrassed to ask a gynecologist anything, but honestly, some women don't bleed when they lose their virginity. Penetration = no longer a virgin. You can become pregnant, bleeding or not, so, I wouldn't consider a woman a virgin even if they did not bleed.

Basically, just ask the doctor about the definition of virginity and he/she will explain it to you.

JoeCanada76 · Nov 24, 2007, 08:11 PM

It will be the same answer that everybody here gave.

Fr_Chuck · Nov 24, 2007, 08:12 PM

You can always see a doctor and should, esp if you are starting sex, for advice on birth control if nothing else.
But in today's society, many women don't bleed whent hey loe their virginity. Also even a little of the fluid ( prefluid) can cause pregnacy

If you want to consider yourself a virgin, ok, do it, if it makes you feel better

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