I have been with my partner for 3 years now and we have had the ongoing problem if her not having feeling externally in her vagina and breast. She says that I'm actually the first person she had let touch her inside and let have oral sex with. But when I have tried to give oral she says she has little it no sensation externally. Please help! I don't know if it's just her not wanting to feel submissive and she is not in touch with her feminism it what, but she claims she is willing to work on it. Any advice?