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    tairyn123 Posts: 12, Reputation: 3
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    Sep 13, 2007, 05:05 PM
    Orgasms;vibrators,etc.
    Ok, I am 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. At first we were together all the time, we lived near each other and then we lived together. Now and for the last year he has lived an hour away for work, (hopefully not for [I]that[I]much longer... ) and we spend every weekend together. Before we got together the only way I had ever had been able to orgasm was with a vibrator. Eventually he was able to give me AMAZING ones through oral. But since we only see each other on the weekends I have been using the vibrator again, alone and when we are together. He has given me oral but I haven been able to get there that since we only do it once a week. He has been getting more and more discouraged because he wants to be able to give me orgasms. I feel bad because I can't get there. Is there any way I have become dependent on the vibrator? Any suggestions to get rid of my "vibrator addiction" so I can have orgasms from my boyfriend? Any techniques? I just want him to feel like he is the one satifsying me. I tell him he does and that orgasm isn't always the goal at least for me. Please help!! Thanks!!
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    Sep 13, 2007, 07:10 PM
    I say get rid of the toy, they are too intense and you will become addicted to the effects they give you. If you are going to masturbate use only your hands.
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    Sep 13, 2007, 07:12 PM
    Yes get rid of it, if it is hurting your real life relationship it is time to choice
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