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Without diving into the morality of this situation, I would have to say no, because this man that you are having an affair with is now "going down one you" does NOT mean he is starting to have stronger feelings for you.
This obviously isnt his way of showing his feelings... he has already made that clear.
My guess would be that, for some reason, he may have felt that you were starting to be less satisfied. And, in an attempt to save his "side-line sex partner," he decided to give you more.
In his eyes, hes got a great thing going on... hes got the family at home with an affair with another woman (or maybe OTHER WOMEN). If he has to give you a little more so that you dont get bored or unsatisfied with it, he will.
If he had strong feelings for you, he would leave his wife an pursue you. He is not doing this. You are there for his sexual pleasure and that is all.
Well I doomed to hell my limit for this week, so I guess I will have to give this a pass for the cheating and the destroying to families, the possible STD that could be passed onto unsuspecting family at home.
But no, it merely means his sexual tastes and desires have broadened. Perhaps from another new sex partner who he is cheating on you and his wife with, perhaps from reading about it, or from watching porn films, the list of why is limitless. Maybe his wife and he started and he found he liked it and now you are getting the result of that.
You are accepting second best from a man who is using you purely for sexual use. At least a prostitue gets some income from having her body used.
And of course a husband and family at home must have little value if you risk it all for a bouncy bed ride.
Guess I sound alittle down on this one, but I see too many families runined, too many divorces, children who don't see thier mom or dad for months or years after nasty split ups.