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Old May 30, 2007, 07:00 PM
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year, and I love her very much. We have a mutually fulfilling sexual relationship, and we communicate well. Recently, I told her of my fantasy of her performing oral sex on me and swallowing my sperm. She said that would be "gross," and has never brought me to climax during oral sex because she does not want me to come in her mouth. I perform oral sex for her, and I enjoy having her sexual fluids on my face and tasting them. We have discussed sexual fantasies before and have pleased each other very much. But she will still not accept my sperm in her mouth, My question is: what must I do or say to make her change her mind, to make her understand how much I wish she'd do this ?
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Old May 31, 2007, 06:02 AM   #11  
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let her do you and don't tell her you are about to , just kiddng. my friend this is a fight that we rarely win. women are programmed at an early eage that oral sex is nasty. No woman brags about swallowing or catcing sperm in their mouth. so many women simply find this disgusting. Prostituters won't do this, so what i am trying to say is that usually if a woman has determined or been brainwashed into beliving that this is disgusting that is the end of it. It is not worth the fight.

Hey hun, do me a favour and have a try of your own semen!
Let me know how yummy it is okay?

The thing is, it's semen! It's not like the delicious filling of a yoyo!
It's nasty!
BUT- Sometimes, it can taste alright. But how many guys do we know that eat nothing but fruit and vegetables?

I don't think you're gong to get anywhere preaching your girlfriend to taste and admire your semen. Especially when you probably have no idea what it tastes like, unless you have already tried it and you dig it?


Have a little compassion mate! She will love you for it.
If she tells you she's keen, tell her you're going to indulge in pineapple for a week so you taste nice for her! lol
Females just taste better so it's easier for a guy to enjoy then a girl would with a moutful of semen!
We don't ejactulate semen, come to think of it, I don't think we ejactulate anything noticeable..
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Old May 31, 2007, 08:44 AM   #12  
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Women do ejaculate, but only when they have a G-Spot orgasm.

(Also: I am a guy, I am a vegetarian, so fruit and vegetables are pretty much al I eat. And water :-P)

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Old May 31, 2007, 06:27 PM   #13  
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Women do ejaculate, but only when they have a G-Spot orgasm.

Hmmmm... I've had a g-spt orgasm and I don't believe I've enjaculated enough 'liquid'.. to compare it with semen. lol

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stargazer10 agrees: really? I would like to know how a g-spot orgasm feels... too bad!
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Old May 31, 2007, 08:01 PM   #14  
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Some women do, some women don't.
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Old Jun 1, 2007, 05:39 AM   #15  
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year, and I love her very much. We have a mutually fulfilling sexual relationship, and we communicate well. Recently, I told her of my fantasy of her performing oral sex on me and swallowing my sperm. She said that would be "gross," and has never brought me to climax during oral sex because she does not want me to come in her mouth. I perform oral sex for her, and I enjoy having her sexual fluids on my face and tasting them. We have discussed sexual fantasies before and have pleased each other very much. But she will still not accept my sperm in her mouth, My question is: what must I do or say to make her change her mind, to make her understand how much I wish she'd do this ?
its gross alright to ejaculate inside her mouth, its unhealthy and she might get bad breath for a not so good oral hygiene

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fix-what-you-broke disagrees: sorry have to disagree, it isnt unhealthy at all, its full of nutrients!
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Old Jun 1, 2007, 10:05 AM   #16  
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Like others have said, you can't change her mind.

I was the same way as your GF. And just in the past two years I've been married I decided to try and swallow. I've only swallowed twice. I let my Hubby come in my mouth and he wants me to swallow, but I don't. He used to get mad untill I told him I would swallow every time if he tried his sperm. He didn't want to, so I told him, Well TO BAD baby, I'll swallow when I feel like it.

If you keep insisting she will stop preforming oral and that's worse. So just enjoy what she gives you. She might change her mind, she might not. But don't try to change it for her.


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Old Jun 1, 2007, 02:21 PM   #17  
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Hey, it's easier to beg for forgiveness than ask for permission. Just do it.

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MummaCrash disagrees: These are the kind of Men to hate. *nods head*
kepi disagrees: NO! THIS IS HORRIBLE ADVICE! By doing this, he'd be making it clear her opinion was meaningless, and that's just not good at all whatsoever!!!!!!!
Synnen disagrees: That would last ONE time. After that, she wouldn't take the chance it would happen again, and would keep his happy stick FAR from her mouth
saraispiel19 disagrees: i would bite αnybody's cock off if they did thαt to me
Tuscany disagrees: You would never have to ask for forgiveness again if you did that...because any chance of getting another one would be out the window
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If you love your partner, your happy with what she does, and not worried about what she doesn't do.

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Old Jun 9, 2007, 07:18 AM   #19  
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first of all u cud not get ur thngs hapen forcfully, if she cud enjoy to do the thngs defenatally it will serve ur purpose but if jnot it cud make a big trouble to u doing these thngs
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This is going to sound gross as hell but it worked for my wife early in our marriage. Tell her if you blow in her mouth she can kiss you right away and put it in yours...then if you get the nerve to swallow she might see its not so gross. She saw you make an effort to impress upon her its not so much a big deal. She might be far less apprehensive. Trust me I did not particularly like it having never done it before either but the fact I was not asking her to do something I wasn't willing to do made a great impression on her.
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