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How can you stop the female ejaculation and normally have an orgasym so you don't make such a mess??? I enjoy it, but it's embarrassing to get everything so wet. Please help this lady.
I'd like to see your reputable scientific facts for it being urine.
Because, frankly--you're essentially telling me that I'm p!ssing myself when I have sex, and while you say we "agree to disagree"--you're not agreeing to disagree. You're pushing it and pushing it as urine, and frankly, I'm offended that YOU think you know more about what *I* am doing in bed than I do.
So...unless you've done it yourself, or have witnessed someone doing it--don't presume that you KNOW that it's urine. And frankly--there's a difference between the urethra and the vagina, and I happen to KNOW the difference, and so does my husband. It's NOT urine--it's coming from the vagina.
So--if you just want to agree to disagree, then just shut up about it already.
"l12 disagrees: Sorry, it happens and it sure don't smell like urine....it smells sweet as a matter of fact" I think you misread what I am saying l12. I am agreeing that it ISN'T urine. I said it DOESN'T look OR smell like it, I know because I myself squirt sometimes. I think your negative comment belongs to Choux, not me!
It's ok! =) What he was saying got me so worked up that I may have sounded harsh when I responded to your comment.
I don't think you should be embarrased by it by the way. I was at first myself, but most men find it incredibly hot. When it happens they know they are doing something right and it drives them wild. Just relax and enjoy yourself. If you focus on it too much, it will take some of the enjoyment out of the experience!
you go rockerchick26 and thank you...I'VE searched this too. and could not find an answer to just...cu.....ing without the mess....so that's why I inquired on this site....but I do know that it is an awesome feeling, and afterwards........the towels, the sheets...or whatever come out smelling like a Rose....per say..........so sweet.
I'm with *most* of the other people who've posted on this thread, I think you're probably a "squirter" and if you are, DAMN you're a lucky lady! It's something to be proud of and definately not an embaressment! As long as you're enjoying having sex I wouldn't want to supress anything that comes naturally as a part of it!
I know plenty of men (and women for that matter!) who find this a massive turn-on!
As has been said before, if you're worried about the mess you made, put a towel down, relax and have some fun!
You are so GOSH DARN lucky to even be able to orgasm! I don't know why you would want to stop that wonderful sensation. I am SO jealous : )
As far as stopping it...don't have sex. Plain and simple.
The day I have an orgasm it will be the messiest freakin explosion EVER and I won't give a damn what my boyfriend thinks. I'm sure he will love it though.
Like the aboves posts, put a towel under you. Do you not like the wet feeling between your legs?
I have extensive sexual experience, ladies, and a few spasms of your urethra and shots of urine are very pleasurable, it is not at all like the thunderous impact of multiple orgasms which rock one's brain, consciousness and reproductive system..... You are all speaking of spasms in your urinary system....I'm talking about orgasms of the female reproductive systems.