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How can you stop the female ejaculation and normally have an orgasym so you don't make such a mess??? I enjoy it, but it's embarrassing to get everything so wet. Please help this lady.
try tantric...better orgasm...less often. It's like shooting a machine gun at a target or dropping a bomb on it. If you're gonna destroy something you should do it right and have all the ooos and ahhhs to go with it.
Based on the reading I have done by sex experts Annie Sprinkle, Betty Dodson, Carol Queen and having attended countless Good Vibrations sex workshops I DO believe in female ejaculation. It is clear and different from pee.
As for the poster: YOU are so lucky to be able to do this. Not all women can. Do you have any idea how hot this is and how many men are turned on by this? So many women are only able to come via clitoral stimulation and don't know much about G-spot orgasms--in fact of you want to share how you reach this I would love to hear
Don't be embarrassed. It is a sexually charged, erotic nuance that is totally human.
My question for Choux: you say that you do not have a g-spot thus you don't believe in female ejaculation. SO--how would you know if you have never been in this position? Furthermore, have you had sex with a woman? Seen her do it? Have you watched enough (lesbian) porn to be 100% sure--looking close up and seeing what it is? Have you ever read Dan Savage? I do disagree with you but there's nothing wrong with that.
Nature of the fluid
Studies have been done by Beverly Whipple, John Perry, Gary Schuback, Milan Zaviacic and Cabello Santamaria but their findings are limited. While current information offers no solid information about the source of the fluid, chemical analysis performed on the fluid has revealed that while it sometimes contains at least traces of urine, it regularly contains chemical markers unique to the prostate (whether male or female).
The latest research indicates the possibility that all women produce female ejaculate, even if they are not aware of it:
The expelled or released fluid is not urine, it is an alkaline liquid secreted by the paraurethral (alongside the urethra) glands.
The paraurethral glands produce an enzyme called prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP), along with prostate-specific antigen (PSA).
Skene's gland also produces Human Protein 1, a trait formerly believed to be unique to the male prostate.
I got that off Wikipedia--search female ejaculate if you want to read the whole thing...