I have anothe sex question. Gosh, i've been away from my man for 3 months and all i can think about is sex It's so sad! Kind of pathetic. I keep thinking that I need to buy a vibrator to tame the thoughts...but I'm too embarassed to walk in to a sex shop. I've never used a toy!!! FYI!! I am temporarily living with my dad, until my honey returns home. So... i don't know about buying a toy online....and having my dad recieve it in the mail...omg how embarassing. What can i do? I get so frustrated because i have no partner, but I love him with all my heart so I won't do anything unfaithful. What can i gal like me do?

simoneaugie

You don't need a vibrator to have an orgasm. You have two hands and an imagination. Use them.

the1unv

You dont need to be embarrassed to go into a sex shop. They do this for a living. Simply go in and tell them you have a good friend who is getting married. You want to buy her a sexy little vibe for her bachlorette party. They will show you a few items..........pick the one you think "she" will like the most. Its that simple.
Mike

Synnen

oh, lord.

ADULTS shop in ADULT toy stores--sex shops. BE an adult, and just go pick out what you like.

Believe me, the people that work in those places have sex drives too! And it's not just sleazy old men working the counters, either. My favorite sex shop is run by a woman--which is GREAT, because I can always get her opinion on the products out there.

My question to you though: Why would your dad be opening boxes addressed to you?

Fr_Chuck

Most adult stores have a great variety of products, if the one you know of is sleazy, don't go to that one.

And personally if you have a dad that is actually OPENing your mail, I would get all types of things mailed to your house as a joke to teach him a lesson.

hollylovesbrandon

there is nothing embarassing about a sex shop. actually, in my town there is a lion's den shop. Well, the town hates it being here and there are always people picketing out front of it and taking pictures of me when i walk in. i just flip them off and walk on by. I mean, i respect their right to picket and all i mean this is America and it is guaranteed by the constitution, but they should respect my right to buy those things...that again, is guarantees by the constitution. I am still not embarassed about it. Being a young, healthy, sexually active, monogomous woman is NOTHING to be ashamed of. feel free to share it with others!

kp2171

my wife has this cute little pink number... its not a penis shaped dildo, its just about 5 in long, thin-ish, with a flattened circle area toward the end... so its mostly a cl!toral vibe.

when she goes out of town shell take it along. better than her taking the guy from the bar into her room.

if you are just icked out about adult stores... and seriously, you should probably just go to one... you can always leave if it isnt ok with you... do you have a gf you can have it sent to?

talaniman

You could always take a girlfriend shopping with you, or save the money, and get to know yourself personally. Maybe a little of both, for variety.

l12

Go to your local Spencers in the mall.........They will not make u feel uncomfortable and they have a few to choose from..........It took me 43 years to realize that I can pleasure myself........and not feel guilty........Get a good massage oil too.....It will help you relax and enjoy yourself.........You have to love and enjoy yourself so that you can please others. Don't be shy about your love for yourself.....You aren't going out cheating..

Handyman2007

Fingers, a well placed electric shaver vibrates nicely(my ex's favorite),,,use your imagination.