The reason why I'm asking is because my ex would always tell me she was sore after sex, like she said sometimes after it would hurt her to sit down, consequently she would never want to have sex multiple times in a row she would always want to take some time off. I never really asked her about it, but now that I've been going through and thinking about our relationship, I've been thinking about problems that we may have had. She would often text me and say that there would be a little bit of blood in her underwear after sex sometimes. The thing is, we didn't really have sex all the time, on average probably once every 2 weeks because we were at diff. colleges, and like I said whenever we visitd, we would only have sex like once because she would be sore afterwards for a day or two.

During the act however she enjoyed it. She would always tell me what I was doing right and often times asked me to go harder(?). Unless she was lying to me for 2 and a half years, she would get off during intercourse maybe 4 out of 6 times, sometimes more than once. I don't think she was lying to me because we were very open about our sex lives with each other and she would take tips out of cosmo and always tell me new things that we should try. The whole sore part is just what baffles me.


I just want to know because she was the first person I had sex with and I want to know if I was doing something wrong so that I won't suck for the next person. Thanks!