My boyfriend prefers first oral sex, but then he stops me and wants finish himself off himself mostly with me sticking my tongue out and him coming in my mouth. We're only 5 weeks into the relationship, but he has little interest in having sex, but totally loves this, which I find just gets weird to me to want do the same thing over and over and not at least mix it up. I feel like jacking off is something guys can do when they don't have a woman lying there ready and willing to do it or to even let me try harder to do a better blow job so that I'm the one giving the orgasm and not him all the time? I mean when he does me, he does it all, not like I stop him and go oh let me rub myself now, you know? I have tried talking to him and he says either he has to "really be in the mood for sex" or that he has issues with the intimacy of it. So I don't know, our relationship is new so should I just drop it for now and keep letting him do what he enjoys? He kind of has fetishes and ******* in my mouth is one, but he also kind of wishes I would find him jerking off in panties exciting for me, but like againm, I feel like this is something he could do all he wants on the days we're not together. I rather feel like when we are together we're doing something together and that I'm playing more of a lead role in giving him his orgasm, any feedback appreciated. Thanks.