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i have a problem reaching my peak, usually a male would have to perform oral on me for thirty to forty-five minutes in order for me to climax... what's the problem?
You will see that your situation is so common. Some women orgasm through sex. Some need to be 'helped' during sex, some get off through masturbation and some don't even climax at all sex or masturbation (poor souls)
Orgasms aren't just about the physical feeling. It is also about psychological feelings. Does your' mind wander when getting this done to you? Do you worry about something and think about it while it is being performed?
Think about what turns you on, tell your partner and you will most likely climax a lot faster.
Also know where your 'spot' of pleasure is. Definintely find that out. He could be doing all the wrong things and you and him wouldn't even know it. Expierement.
Does it take you that long to reach orgasm when you are masturbating? If not, maybe you are not completely comfortable letting yourself go with a partner. May I ask how old you are?
a male would have to perform oral on me for thirty to forty-five minutes in order for me to climax... what's the problem?
You need to find a man who will not give up!!
A man who is patient!!
A man who is really hard working!!
A man with huge jaw & tongue muscles!!
Then you will be OK. I hope this helped
i have a problem reaching my peak, usually a male would have to perform oral on me for thirty to forty-five minutes in order for me to climax... what's the problem?
I think the problem is you have a man that isn't good at reading your signals. And thus isn't really that good at oral.
I think the problem is you have a man that isn't good at reading your signals. And thus isn't really that good at oral.
Are you mentally turned on before you get to this? Or is he rushing to get to home base and missing out the foreplay? Go right back to square one - lots of kissing, caressing, find out what your sensory points are, play games. Some men seem to think that they'e sucking on a hotdog when they try oral sex, and that's awful. He doesn't need a big tongue, just one that's in the right place, and you need to stop expecting him to make you come, and waiting for it - that alone can stop it happening. Just concentrate on having fun, and getting mentally aroused first Get him to practise with his tongue in the palm of his hand so he gets to learn the different pressures and sensations and what he's actually doing with it, and get some icecream and chocolate sauce
Are you mentally turned on before you get to this? Or is he rushing to get to home base and missing out the foreplay? Go right back to square one - lots of kissing, caressing, find out what your sensory points are, play games. Some men seem to think that they'e sucking on a hotdog when they try oral sex, and that's awful. He doesn't need a big tongue, just one that's in the right place, and you need to stop expecting him to make you come, and waiting for it - that alone can stop it happening. Just concentrate on having fun, and getting mentally aroused first Get him to practise with his tongue in the palm of his hand so he gets to learn the different pressures and sensations and what he's actually doing with it, and get some icecream and chocolate sauce
Exactly...a good man can tell if you are in the "zone" and if you aren't then he can get you there.
An oblivious guy just keeps charging ahead, damned if you are ready or not.
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