Originally Posted by
f4af2007
I have been turned on when I make out with a guy and have felt all that passion and desire. (...) I just wonder if there are girls who just don't get pleasure during sex period!
Do you get turned on when making out with your BF, meaning do you get all hot and heavy and wet and want him inside you?
What do you mean when you say you get no pleasure? Do you mean you don't have an orgasm during intercourse? That's absolutely not unusual. About 70% of women can't reach climax from penetration alone; they need direct stimulation of the clitoris in order to come.
I can only encourage you to do what others have already suggested: explore your vagina, inside and out. Masturbate, with or without toys (you can find some in the refrigerator! LOL). Once you know what feels good when you do it to yourself, teach your BF to do it to you.
There are women out there who have an orgasm the very first time they have sex, or reach multiple orgasms on a regular basis, or climax from penetration alone. However, for most of us, things aren't that easy and it takes practice to have satisfying sex with a man.