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Old Jan 6, 2006, 11:17 AM
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Multiple Orgasm

When my husband and I do have sex ( which isn't offen ) he wants me to have multiple Orgasm, but after the first one, which is really strong, it's hard to have a second one. I have told him that I need to rest at least ten minutes but he doesn't want me to wait, he just want me to have one after another like if he's haveing a contest with his self to see how many times he can get me to have one. Any idea?
 
     

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Old Jan 13, 2006, 06:42 AM   #11  
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well, it may be that your husband needs to enforce some more foreplay or start using foreplay. This a huge and if he hits the right spots, then you will have maximum results. Believe!!!
 
 
     
 
 
Old Jan 13, 2006, 06:56 AM   #12  
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I think the idea of multiple orgasims are a bit overated. Everyone thinks that woman are suppose to have them. But I don't think they are that common like everyone thinks they are. Most of the time I think that the first one is probably a few wrapped up into one. Sometimes Illl have one that lasts longer than normal. But I never expirenced one and then another one a few minutes later. Your husband shouldn't pressure you into having "multiples" its not that easy to do conciously. Hey if you get one big one that should be enough to satisfy both partners.
 
 
     
 
 
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You can either fake a few or tell him he needs to work harder,if he balks tell him it was his idea in the first place and he better live up to his word,If he's still alive after a few hours slap him cross his head and tell him you ain't finished yet! By this time he should be ready to listen to reason!

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I never even thought of that idea. That is an awsome idea, I hear some women do that anyway to make their man think they are doing the job right. FAKING ORGASM. HOPE you can pretend well.
 
 
     
 
 
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The only thing about faking is it might make him more determined for you to have them all the time.
 
 
     
 
 
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The big difference between faking them and actually "trying" to have multiple orgasms, is that even if your guy expects it all the time, there is really no pressure on you to have more when you fake them. Its better than really trying at it and not succeeding and getting frustrated. There is nothing wrong with a little fake "oohing and ahhing" to get it done.
 
 
     
 
 
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The big difference between faking them and actually "trying" to have multiple orgasms, is that even if your guy expects it all the time, there is really no pressure on you to have more when you fake them. Its better than really trying at it and not succeeding and getting frustrated. There is nothing wrong with a little fake "oohing and ahhing" to get it done.
No harm at all
 
 
     
 
 
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Originally Posted by Bobbie Ann
When my husband and I do have sex ( which isn't offen ) he wants me to have multiple Orgasm, but after the first one, which is really strong, it's hard to have a second one. I have told him that I need to rest at least ten minutes but he doesn't want me to wait, he just want me to have one after another like if he's haveing a contest with his self to see how many times he can get me to have one. Any idea?
It is possible to have multiple orgasms if you are relaxed and not under pressure from your husband. It is not right for him to demand more of you if you're "spent" after the first one. You can't have an orgasm under pressure; it just causes frustration and may eventually cause resentment toward him for putting this kind of pressure on you.

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Chery agrees: So right Sunni, that's just selfish macho crap on his part - probably brags to his buddies too. That's not respectful.
 
 
     
 
 
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Is it possible to have spontaneous orgasms. For no reason what so ever, it can happen to me. Not when I'm with my husband, but all by myself, and I haven't been trying to do it, it just happens.
 
 
     
 
 
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Is it possible to have spontaneous orgasms. For no reason what so ever, it can happen to me. Not when I'm with my husband, but all by myself, and I haven't been trying to do it, it just happens.
It's like one in a million, but is possible. Take this subject up with your doctor, you'll get reassured that there is nothing wrong with you.


Some of us would consider you a lucky girl!
 
 
     

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