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Is it morally wrong

Asked Jan 20, 2008, 03:22 PM — 12 Answers
I am 20 and I have a friend who is 33. We both like each other as friends but she has admitted she wants me as more. She is very attractive but I have doubts

Age is no problem for us but I even have to say the gap is large. I am worried that she might feel bad after it. Also that her friends would talk about her.

So I just need a bit of guidance
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Jan 21, 2008, 07:09 PM
Your intial question was "IS IT MORALLY WRONG?" As for as morality goes since you are not committed to anyone else, nor related it is not morally wrong. As for it being wrong in the practical sense - you are an adult and can decide for yourself. But the very fact that you are having doubts should give you a clue!
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Jan 21, 2008, 07:15 PM
It is not the morality or legality of it. You feel uncomfortable about it, and if you do, you should not pursue it at this point in time.
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Jan 22, 2008, 05:58 AM
There is a very real generation gap. Eventually She won't be fitting in with the crowd you feel comfortable with. Plus at 20 you really do not know what you want yet, (you only think you do) while she has already been through that stage of life.
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