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ARODRI20 · Feb 7, 2008, 05:29 PM

Do you find large vaginal lips sexy or not. I have a large labia, and my lips are a brownish tint? Is this gross?

Xrayman · Feb 7, 2008, 06:22 PM

I think women are so much more concerned about their labia than men are. Short answer-no I don't care-any labia are good labia to me.

large labia=sexy
small labia=sexy

no labia=not so sexy

Fr_Chuck · Feb 7, 2008, 06:29 PM

I will agree with xrayman, I doubt many men care less, most are too busy thinking about their own desire and needs to really pay much attention. And yes I will agree that women worry about this more than a man will think about it, in his entire life time.

Choux · Feb 8, 2008, 01:32 PM

I never gave a second thought to the appearance of my external genitalia... the labia can't be too large, can they??

Not a man, but I'm a curious woman. :)

simoneaugie · Feb 8, 2008, 10:09 PM

I was once married to a man who was very concerned with labial appearance. I divorced him! You are sexy. Did you know that the color of someone's facial lips are a good guide to vaginal lip, and penis color? Knowing that allows you to be more choosy? Who cares?

tickle · Feb 11, 2008, 05:20 AM

Size of labia is not a problem, but cameltoes are not attractive. Cameltoes are large labia inside tight shorts. Picture it.

shygrneyzs · Feb 11, 2008, 07:08 AM

There are sites dedicated to camel toes, Tickle - honest! A former boyfriend of mine was obsessed by them. Not my passion at all.

Now about labias - why should it matter? It is not like we get to pick which one we want.

smoothy · Feb 11, 2008, 08:09 AM

They are not gross... I've dated a woman that had vaginal lips about an inch and a half long. She had long nipples too but that's another story, and lots of fun as well.

They can be a lot of fun to play with (trust me we both loved it). Try that with a woman that has practically no vaginal lips to speak of.

The pigmentation of them has everything to do with your age and racial background as well as skin color... If you have darker lips and nipples you would be more likely to have darker labia as well.

Will 99% of the men care? No... if you meet one that does dump him.

Choux · Feb 12, 2008, 08:16 PM

Oprah had camel toe on her show today... she's gained weight, and she always wears her clothes too tight! HA!

tickle · Feb 13, 2008, 04:10 AM

There are plastic surgeons who specialize in altering female genitalia. I am not a fan of porn but have watched some in my time and after discovering this about plastic surgeons, I realized why some pron stars have no labia majora at all. It has all to do with erotica.

smoothy · Feb 13, 2008, 05:41 AM

Originally Posted by tickle

Their are plastic surgeons who specialize in altering female genitalia. I am not a fan of porn but have watched some in my time and after discovering this about plastic surgeons, i realized why some pron stars have no labia majora at all. It has all to do with erotica.

I've seen much porn as well... While most of the women look great I tend to like the ones with the natural breasts and or/ the larger vaginal labia.

I don't like boob jobs unless the woman has the "orange in a gym sock" thing going on. And prefer the nether regions unaltered by a cosmetic surgeon, except maybe if you consider laser hair removal cosmetic surgery.

Choux · Feb 13, 2008, 01:26 PM

tickle, so small external genitalia are considered more attractive, then, if the porn women want to have them... come to think of it, I don't remember any prominent vaginal lips when I watched some porn.

simoneaugie · Feb 13, 2008, 02:03 PM

Perhaps surgical minimization of the labia is somehow connected to the common misconception that a woman's entire crotch is a vagina. The vagina is just a hole, a tube for blood, babies and penises. Vaginas are interesting, but only when attached to the rest of the body. Maybe that's the only real trouble with porn, it disconnects.

"Value comes from what is there, usefulness from what is not there."

Lao Tsu

Synnen · Feb 13, 2008, 02:45 PM

Wow... no idea what kind of porn you are watching, but I've seen porn with EVERY kind of body type, shape, color and size there is.

Large labia, small labia---ask a guy when you're standing in front of him naked if he sees anything in front of him but a naked woman who (probably!) is going to have sex with him.

margarita_momma · Feb 13, 2008, 02:45 PM

Originally Posted by ARODRI20

do you find large vaginal lips sexy or not. I have a large labia, and my lips are a brownish tint? Is this gross?

I am not a guy but...

Hon, you are not alone. A very large majority of women have large, darker tinted lips. That is actually very common. Most of the women you see in porn and magazines either have had some nice photoshop work done or they get their lips bleached to make them a nice pink color. Don't worry about it so much. :)

rodandy12 · Feb 15, 2008, 06:30 AM

... they get their lips bleached to make them a nice pink color.

?? Is this true? Bleached?

OK, maybe it helps with the STDs as well. ;)

smoothy · Feb 15, 2008, 06:46 AM

Originally Posted by rodandy12

...they get their lips bleached to make them a nice pink color.

??? Is this true? Bleached?

OK, maybe it helps with the STDs as well. ;)

I think that's were Michael Jackson got his ideas... :eek: However I find it hard to believe he would watch regular porn.

tickle · Feb 15, 2008, 07:17 AM

Hi, Choux, yes I think the absence or minimal labia majora are sought after by porn stars because it makes the clitoris more prominent. As I understand it, there is also plastic surgery to make the clitoris larger as well, but I think that would minimize sensation, and they really can't advertise that for obvious reasons such as genital mutilation. It is all about money anyway, most porn stars are quite wealthy if they can moan really well.

bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE · Feb 15, 2008, 07:50 AM

I believe society, such as the porn industry wants people to think that a 'tucked in' vagina is the sexiest. Why? Who knows? Who got to decide if that was attractive or not?

Have you ever heard some of the nasty words used to refer to larger labia? It is disrespectful, degrading and humiliating to women.

There are all different shapes and sizes of women's genitalia.

smoothy · Feb 15, 2008, 08:12 AM

I can't explain it either but I be it's the same people that think huge obviously fake boobs look great too.